12-27-2011, 07:26 AM
sc4456 Wrote:i'm so confused i know im gay but i think i just need a next step any ideas !:confused:
Firstly G day and welcome to GaySpeak.
Secondly, there is no good advice that anyone can give you other than 'time'...the only thing that cures confusion is knowledge, and the only thing that can cure your confusion is knowledge of yourself. We have all been through it, sometimes it isn't easy, other times it is plain sailing.
The best bit of advice is trust your gut, and just keep in touch with us in GaySpeak, sometimes things make better sense when you put things down in words and then read back over what you have said.
You just need to learn how to accept yourself, I know you have said that you know you are gay, but it seems you haven't accepted it, otherwise you would be with a boy, not a girl That's just my two cents.
Just take your time mate.