12-27-2011, 12:10 PM
I have a very close friend with whom I share cuddles and it's not a sexual thing at all. In fact, sometimes he'll be on the sofa in between my partner and myself in a perfectly innocent, all-clothes-on, mates-having-a-cuddle scene. No kissing. No whispering sweet stupidities like lovers do, just hand-holding and arm-enfolding. We humans crave skin-contact and closeness with other humans. Since the man and I have cuddles and intimate contact in abundance, we see no problem in sharing it with our (currently single and a little lonely) best mate.