12-30-2011, 08:08 AM
inthecloset Wrote:a long time ago my dad had a gay friend. In fact one of his best friends. Don't really know what that was about but i know they don't keep in touch anymore. But I know everytime my dad sees a (obvious) gay guy on tv he makes an obnoxious comment about it.i hate to hear that. it's not a good sign. he may have cut out this friend because he was gay. would you dare to ask him about the guy now, or would that just lead to an argument of some kind? it might be a good way to feel him out without directly bringing up gayness.
also, when he busted you scoping your friend, was he really bad about the idea of you being into dudes? was it true anger, or maybe just disappointment or what? it took him a week to confront you about it you say? are you sure it was just him that saw you and that he didn't hear it secondhand?