01-08-2012, 07:00 PM
Is he much older or younger than you? Any health changes for either of you?
What do you mean when you say you "come on to him?"
I'm asking because maybe it could be YOU who forgot the romance? What are you doing to make it fun? When did it become "sex" and not "making love?"
massages - make love to his body with your hands
bath with candles and wine - make love to his soul
walk in the moonlight - make love to his heart
start a conversation and listen - make love to his mind
IDK, just make him feel like he's more than fulfilling a need? It's almost like he's kind of told you, he can do that for himself.
Maybe think back to early in the relationship and what both of you did to make the other FEEL special?
Also, you are listed as "open relationship" - maybe it's time to explore what that means to you both and go with that option?
What do you mean when you say you "come on to him?"
I'm asking because maybe it could be YOU who forgot the romance? What are you doing to make it fun? When did it become "sex" and not "making love?"
massages - make love to his body with your hands
bath with candles and wine - make love to his soul
walk in the moonlight - make love to his heart
start a conversation and listen - make love to his mind
IDK, just make him feel like he's more than fulfilling a need? It's almost like he's kind of told you, he can do that for himself.
Maybe think back to early in the relationship and what both of you did to make the other FEEL special?
Also, you are listed as "open relationship" - maybe it's time to explore what that means to you both and go with that option?