can you be gay without anal ?

[ZackT]

I didn't mean to insult anyone's life practices or sexual desires. I'm just giving my opinion, and maybe (based on what others are saying) my opinion is a bit uninformed.

For my own personal relationships, I can't envision having one that didn't involve sex. Guy or girl, it'd be a part of it for me. And if it were with a guy, anal would be involved.

I am able to wrap my head around the idea that some guys may not even want to do that sort of thing. That they'd be satisfied with other acts, whatever those might be. I guess for me, that'd just feel lacking in that aspect of the relationship. But maybe the way I feel ain't the way everyone else feels