Having a hard time understanding

[Cunobelin]

being gay or bi; its not the porn. Three are no definite gay mannerisms and a stereo typical gay dosnt exist. Being gay, all you have to be able to love the same sex in a relationship and its difficult to see a successful relationship with out the sex. Kinda in that order.

I wold not try to put a label on it but you need to be confidant. What if you kissed that guy and you liked it...?

So true. The "stereotypical gay man" is one portrayed on TV. We aren't all Jack from Will and Grace. While I'm certainly not a "man's man" I'm not camp either. This certainly is not specific solely to me. Not all lesbians have buzzed haircuts and call everyone "bro". We aren't characters from some play.