02-02-2012, 01:14 AM
It sounds like with those guys telling you that you are gay, it might be wishful thinking on THEIR part! 
Maybe relax and try not to pigeon hole yourself. Experiment SAFELY with who you enjoy.
I really think we are all unique in our degree of sexual fluidity. Just be yourself. Where the lever lands is your personal business.
The fact that you don't want to kiss a guy or have a relationship: maybe explore if there are any outside influences there (cultural/religious/family baggage)?
I personally think that rather than using sex/porn as an indicator, it might be better to examine your internal feelings, emotional attachments and inclinations toward forming relationships.
Who do you want to snuggle with on a rainy day? Do you check out guys?
Maybe relax and try not to pigeon hole yourself. Experiment SAFELY with who you enjoy.
I really think we are all unique in our degree of sexual fluidity. Just be yourself. Where the lever lands is your personal business.
The fact that you don't want to kiss a guy or have a relationship: maybe explore if there are any outside influences there (cultural/religious/family baggage)?
I personally think that rather than using sex/porn as an indicator, it might be better to examine your internal feelings, emotional attachments and inclinations toward forming relationships.
Who do you want to snuggle with on a rainy day? Do you check out guys?
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