Having a hard time understanding

[princealbertofb]

On another note, bear in mind that porn isn't 'real relationship' sex and that some performers are definitely not really gay themselves. They are only doing it for pay (gay for pay). Again, you might try to see which type of gay sex you like to watch most? Is it the kind of sex in which you can tell that both (or all three, all four etc...) are really into each other (emotionally and lustfully at least)? Or are they reaching their goals only because of the money carrot at the end of the stick? Does it turn you on to see two guys kissing or does that part of the scene make you indifferent. I know that I like to see the guys kissing... When they spend the whole time just ramming each other's bodies, I switch off... :redface: I want some in there, and as much of it as possible. Then the sex seems so much less contrived.