Having a hard time understanding

[Person66]

I definitely agree that you should'nt use a label, yet anyway. I identify with the bi label because previously I was only in sexual relationships with women (including long monogamous ones). Then I got my heart broken by this girl and after that, I really didn't feel like being with anyone and lost my libido.
When my libido came Back, I started noticing guys to, and I became very attracted to an extremely attractive, masculine gay guy, and now we're in a serious monogamous relationship. But I like doing everything with him. Like : kissing, sex both ways (we're both versatile), cuddling, holding hands, etc.. But I could also see myself doing things like this with a woman, I'm still attracted to them like I was before. It's just that I'm already sexually satisfied and have no wish to be in a complicated open relationship. As for porn, it's not exactly one of my passions yet I can get off on any kind as long as its good porn (I guess we all have different standards for that) and I'm only attracted to masculine men and feminine women. I must add that though his attractiveness was the spark that brought us together, there are so many other things that I love about him, he's also very attractive/beautiful on the inside.

As for you. I wouldn't worry about labels. Watch the porn that you like, don't worry wether it's labeled gay or straight. Sleep with the people that you want, whoever turns you on. If you don't like kissing than don't kiss and tell whomever you don't want to kiss that you don't want to do that. I'm not advocating promiscuity, just for you to try to be comfortable in your own skin. Your young, enjoy yourself and don't feel bad about it.