No mutual attraction

[Sylph]

Like I said, it's just the way the world is, no it isn't right, but it is what it is and a majority of 'daters' are nothing more than playa's where people are a commodity and sex is a service.

Of course people SHOULD get to know each other, but fact is, gay or str8, men are mainly after satisfaction NOW without commitment.

It would be nice to find someone who is geniune in their endevours for a relationship, they are out there, but you have to kiss a lot of frogs to find a prince.

As for a previous question you asked, can a 20 year old and 40 year old have anything in common? Sure. My ex was 23, I thought he was 'the one' because we were so alike, but I was blind t the fact that he was a drug addict, alcoholic, liar and a theif until I was one the verge of bankruptcy.

So yes, a 20 and 40 year old can have so many things in common, but unfortunately most 20 and 40 and 60 year olds are in different stages of their life.

I pretty much agree with what you've said here. I guess my standards are too puritanical. Anyone of any age can relate, but like you said, people of different ages are at different stages in their lives and I think I was trying to say this? (I got so wrapped up in my "thesis" lol). Just more jumbled up :redface: .

@ Holland, well that's not exactly what he said, but that's basically what he meant. Wasn't funny at the time, cause he was coming off pretty aggressive, but looking back, I can laugh about it now . I will have to look for that movie .