Am I No Good?

[Shadow]

FutureRD has hit the nail on the head as usual, and Michael has echoed this sentiment in the past as well - rejection needn't be as personal as we usually take it.

The cold, simple logic of it is that not everybody is your type, so you're not going to be everybody's type REGARDLESS of your looks, weight, cash, cock size, skin colour, ethnicity, and so on and so forth - we're all different and we're all beautifully unique.

Therefore, just because somebody doesn't find you attractive doesn't mean that's a BAD thing - if everybody DID, you'd never get out your front door for all the fanmail and love letters.

HOWEVER, we do (I'm sure) concede that there is a big difference between rejection of the "I'm sorry mate, you're just not my type" kind, and the "Good LORD what the HELL do you look like !?!?!" kind, and so it's a lot harder to take personally and deliberately-directed rejection in a NON-personal manner.

That being said, have regard for how you portray yourself to others and, if you feel their comments are disproportionate to your approach, take appropriate action !!

If you're still unsure of what we're saying, give us the URL for your profile/s on these sites, and we'll give you our honest critique and pointers.

Cheers,

!?!?! Shadow !?!?!

P.s. FutureRD - nice pic babe - love that dog mile: xx