12-09-2007, 01:20 AM
Let me tell you something else.....
I worked for years (24 actually) as a professional model and SO many people I worked with were told by people over their lives that they were ugly and 70% of them had ow self esteem even years later. Read what any of the top female models say and EVERY one of them will tell you that people told the for most of their lives that they were big and ugly and called them names.
You are NOT ugly, you're just not. Not everyone is for eveyone and not everyone is everones taste. Believe me, I've stood in front of more people in my life and been passed over because i wasn't "what they were looking for"..... and you move on to the next person who YOU ARE what they are looking for.
What I will tell you, and this is FACT (!!!!!). Anyone who tells you that you are ugly is one ugly person on the INSIDE, and there is not enough outer beauty in the world to make up for that deficit.
These people who told you that, was it online? I bet it was. What you need to realize is that the computer has become the new "road rage". People feel safe and anonymous and feel they have the right to be "honest"...which normally means to be a complete horses ASS while giving them some "out" for bad behavior.
Just because you might not be everyones cup of tea, (nor is everyones yours remember) this does not make you ugly. Nor more than the Mona Lisa is ugly just because one person thinks so.
Or because someone managed to log onto a pc!
I worked for years (24 actually) as a professional model and SO many people I worked with were told by people over their lives that they were ugly and 70% of them had ow self esteem even years later. Read what any of the top female models say and EVERY one of them will tell you that people told the for most of their lives that they were big and ugly and called them names.
You are NOT ugly, you're just not. Not everyone is for eveyone and not everyone is everones taste. Believe me, I've stood in front of more people in my life and been passed over because i wasn't "what they were looking for"..... and you move on to the next person who YOU ARE what they are looking for.
What I will tell you, and this is FACT (!!!!!). Anyone who tells you that you are ugly is one ugly person on the INSIDE, and there is not enough outer beauty in the world to make up for that deficit.
These people who told you that, was it online? I bet it was. What you need to realize is that the computer has become the new "road rage". People feel safe and anonymous and feel they have the right to be "honest"...which normally means to be a complete horses ASS while giving them some "out" for bad behavior.
Just because you might not be everyones cup of tea, (nor is everyones yours remember) this does not make you ugly. Nor more than the Mona Lisa is ugly just because one person thinks so.
Or because someone managed to log onto a pc!