02-25-2012, 09:48 PM
I'd like to start a chat but I do have 1 question for you all. I have several friends who dont know Im gay and go on saying "I hate fags" and stuff like that. How do I go about telling them Im gay?
When I hear the word "fag", it brings my mood down actually, cause its an insulting word towards me from the straight community. they dont know how much I try to show myself as a gay. Like my actions and some of my words should show who I am and what not. but they havent caught on yet. I got this 1 friend, hes always like "so and so is such a fag, what do you think?" I'd like to say, who cares if someone is gay, whats it to you? Not like hes hitting on you or anything. besides I know that guy isnt gay anyway. now if I broke the news and said I was gay, all hell would break loose and I'd be hated on for sure, I mean, at one point I almost told him Im gay. He's told me he doesnt like gay people... so what will he do when he finds out a friend of his is gay, right?
I hate the term "fag hag"... just putting that out there.
What do you guys think when the straight community uses the word "fag" towards us gay people?
When I hear the word "fag", it brings my mood down actually, cause its an insulting word towards me from the straight community. they dont know how much I try to show myself as a gay. Like my actions and some of my words should show who I am and what not. but they havent caught on yet. I got this 1 friend, hes always like "so and so is such a fag, what do you think?" I'd like to say, who cares if someone is gay, whats it to you? Not like hes hitting on you or anything. besides I know that guy isnt gay anyway. now if I broke the news and said I was gay, all hell would break loose and I'd be hated on for sure, I mean, at one point I almost told him Im gay. He's told me he doesnt like gay people... so what will he do when he finds out a friend of his is gay, right?
I hate the term "fag hag"... just putting that out there.
What do you guys think when the straight community uses the word "fag" towards us gay people?