05-28-2012, 10:00 PM
Trantric Sex - I believe the first books written on the subject are hundreds if not thousands of years ago - many who get the book(s) and at least try the positions find it fun (entertaining if not pleasurable).
Light S&M can be fun - mind the emphasis on the light - no need to really beat each other up, but a little hot candle wax, some ropes maybe even wearing a bit of leather can spice it up a little.
Since you focused on the bed - try the couch, the dinning table, the easy chair, standing up, on the floor in the shed, in the back of the truck, in a tent (if you can get him to go camping :o) I would suggest the shower but this morning we had someone slip and take a bad fall in the shower...
Porn movies may be an inspiration, get a few 'vanilla' ones and watch then try to act the movie out. Such as 'finding' the pool boy cleaning your pool with little on while you are suntanning - play the roles of the actors, and act it out as best as you can.
Most of sex takes place in the head not between the legs. Some guys and gals like "dirty talk" others like wearing 'costumes' - a simple example of that may be taking an old pair of jeans and making them super short with a few advantageous rips and tears to 'heighten' the look.
There are many other erogenous zones, some people its the ears, the neck, nipples. Try prolonging the experience with foreplay - heavy breathing and heavy petting before you get in ye old missionary style.
There are now flavored and 'dosed up' lubes out there - Candy pants (literally made out of candy which you can eat) and other 'fun' things to try. http://www.overstock.com/Clothing-Shoes/...oduct.html
Goggle sex toys - lots of interesting ideas - yes a lot are wild, some are not.
Example, a vibrating dildo applied to the testicles while oral is performed can do wild things.
Not that I would know from personal experience any of this
Light S&M can be fun - mind the emphasis on the light - no need to really beat each other up, but a little hot candle wax, some ropes maybe even wearing a bit of leather can spice it up a little.
Since you focused on the bed - try the couch, the dinning table, the easy chair, standing up, on the floor in the shed, in the back of the truck, in a tent (if you can get him to go camping :o) I would suggest the shower but this morning we had someone slip and take a bad fall in the shower...
Porn movies may be an inspiration, get a few 'vanilla' ones and watch then try to act the movie out. Such as 'finding' the pool boy cleaning your pool with little on while you are suntanning - play the roles of the actors, and act it out as best as you can.
Most of sex takes place in the head not between the legs. Some guys and gals like "dirty talk" others like wearing 'costumes' - a simple example of that may be taking an old pair of jeans and making them super short with a few advantageous rips and tears to 'heighten' the look.
There are many other erogenous zones, some people its the ears, the neck, nipples. Try prolonging the experience with foreplay - heavy breathing and heavy petting before you get in ye old missionary style.
There are now flavored and 'dosed up' lubes out there - Candy pants (literally made out of candy which you can eat) and other 'fun' things to try. http://www.overstock.com/Clothing-Shoes/...oduct.html
Goggle sex toys - lots of interesting ideas - yes a lot are wild, some are not.
Example, a vibrating dildo applied to the testicles while oral is performed can do wild things.
Not that I would know from personal experience any of this