Things to try? :)

[Bowyn Aerrow]

Trantric Sex - I believe the first books written on the subject are hundreds if not thousands of years ago - many who get the book(s) and at least try the positions find it fun (entertaining if not pleasurable).

Light S&M can be fun - mind the emphasis on the light - no need to really beat each other up, but a little hot candle wax, some ropes maybe even wearing a bit of leather can spice it up a little.

Since you focused on the bed - try the couch, the dinning table, the easy chair, standing up, on the floor in the shed, in the back of the truck, in a tent (if you can get him to go camping :o) I would suggest the shower but this morning we had someone slip and take a bad fall in the shower...

Porn movies may be an inspiration, get a few 'vanilla' ones and watch then try to act the movie out. Such as 'finding' the pool boy cleaning your pool with little on while you are suntanning - play the roles of the actors, and act it out as best as you can.

Most of sex takes place in the head not between the legs. Some guys and gals like "dirty talk" others like wearing 'costumes' - a simple example of that may be taking an old pair of jeans and making them super short with a few advantageous rips and tears to 'heighten' the look.

There are many other erogenous zones, some people its the ears, the neck, nipples. Try prolonging the experience with foreplay - heavy breathing and heavy petting before you get in ye old missionary style.

There are now flavored and 'dosed up' lubes out there - Candy pants (literally made out of candy which you can eat) and other 'fun' things to try. http://www.overstock.com/Clothing-Shoes/...oduct.html

Goggle sex toys - lots of interesting ideas - yes a lot are wild, some are not.

Example, a vibrating dildo applied to the testicles while oral is performed can do wild things.

Not that I would know from personal experience any of this

[Spades]

a vibrating dildo applied to the testicles while oral is performed can do wild things.

Or a vibrating cock ring for oral and anal fun

[Maxx]

Thanks all Woot! I realize we actually tried lots of things while reading through this lol. But I hear some new things as well!

Mattgtf206, I'd love to hear your ideas but it appears I cant send a PM since I did write enough posts.

I guess mentioning a few things we've tried would give a better idea of what we like an avoid me going ''done it, done it, done it'' haha Heres a few of the things we did try: outdoor sex, light bonding (handcuffs, blindfolds), some form of roleplay and lots of dirty talk lol, making a porn, going online on webcam chats and teasing other guys, sex in a car/unusual places, at the drive-in, vibrating cockring. Just to name a few

Love hearing new ideas! On the list to try are costumes, but we cant seem to find the right idea. Thanks a lot guys

[zeon]

or just shag a pillow..... figured id through a light suggestion lol

[avidcyclistMTB]

Might sound kind of vanilla, but candle light and champagne. A little romance can go a looooonnnggg way in spicing things up in ways that can surprise you.

[mrk2010]

This might be a bit controversial but seriously watch porn, I've learned all my best moves from porn and all of them have worked, put it this way I'm not known as "the sex panther" for nothing.

[Maxx]

Thanks guys! I appreciate it! anything else fun and adventurous? Another thing we tried was blowjob on the road but that one wasnt the safest lol. Just looking for daring and fun ideas to do with someone you love and trust

[ardus]

Something I did a few years back with a woman was sex on a running washer. The added vibration was interesting as was the challenge of just keeping everything on the washer.
Richard

[Maxx]

haha nice! Good one! I feel like it'd be even harder to get it right with a man, but I love myself a good challenge

[spencer]

I know you've already mentioned roleplaying but what if you dedicated like an entire day to the roleplay and just went about your day in character and have it build up to the end of day where the actual sex part happens. :o