Is This Normal?

[Fantasies00]

i have a huge urge..and its about black guys, but im not even gay..

ever since i saw a black guy naked in a porn movie ive been dreaming about them every single night, they just look so amazing, and i crave their dick every day,

my fantasie is to dress up as a girl and have sex with a black guy..

is this normal? :/ its killing me..i need to know!

[Bowyn Aerrow]

As a man with a degree in ministry and a strong understanding of the bible I can tell you right now that this is not normal behavior.

As a gay man who has studied human sexuality a little I can tell you right now that this falls well within nominal parameters for human sexual expression, thus is 'normal'.

So what is the difference in my two responses? How you look at it and from what perspective.

I can not quantify what is normal for you.

i have a huge urge..and its about black guys, but im not even gay..

ever since i saw a black guy naked in a porn movie ive been dreaming about them every single night, they just look so amazing, and i crave their dick every day,

my fantasie is to dress up as a girl and have sex with a black guy..

is this normal? :/ its killing me..i need to know!

[Rainbowmum]

It's normal to be attracted to others regardless of their color of their skin.
You a man that is attracted to another man, nothing wrong with that.

Regarding dressing up as a female , as long as you are honest with the guy and inform him you are in drag , I see no problems.
That being said ,please do not set out to deceive your sexuality , as it could lead to violence.

I know you are struggling with your sexuality at the moment, just take things easy , stop over analyzing things.

[spencer]

I live with the idea that if it's what I like, regardless of how abnormal it is, it's what I like and I'm not gonna worry about it. Plus if it's a little "weird" that just makes me more unique.

[Pix]

Having been a runaway in Houston who hung around a lot of prostitutes I know your fantasy is fairly mundane. :tongue:

I'd be curious what someone knowledgeable in Jungian psychology would have to say about this. I used to know someone getting certified as one but she married & moved away and I haven't had contact with her in years. :frown:

[Sceak]

I believe the OP's desire stems from the different composition of the black man and he would like to experience it first hand.

Black men are much harder to the touch, their muscular composition is somewhat different, as is their bone density. Maybe basketball would allow you to satisfy your curiosity without going into something so, likely far from your usual reality as crossdressing and homosexual sex?

[avidcyclistMTB]

If you can realistically define "normal" then maybe you could have an answer. Everyone's sexuality is different and you say you are "not even gay" yet have these "gay" fantasies. Stop labeling it and start accepting how you feel. Maybe some clarity will come at that point.

Good luck and welcome to GS.

[Sylph]

I believe the OP's desire stems from the different composition of the black man and he would like to experience it first hand.

Black men are much harder to the touch, their muscular composition is somewhat different, as is their bone density. Maybe basketball would allow you to satisfy your curiosity without going into something so, likely far from your usual reality as crossdressing and homosexual sex?

You make us sound like we're stone people .

I mean, I'm half black, and I'm as soft as can be without being malleable mile: .

Here's my quick ethnic background;

Mom - Half Black, Half White [ Though she is majoritvely White]
Dad - Half Black, Half Italian
So I'm 2 quarters black and 1 quarter white, 1 quarter italian, or just 2 quarters white if you prefer or Mulatto. Though my skin is white/tan, my hair is curly mile: .
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I've grown up with most of my friends being black and my family is obviously black, so I can somewhat see what you're talking about.

White people, men in particular, although they never admit it, always wonder what it's like to have a black guy's penis or why they are so big and their's isn't.

I agree, I can see a white guy being curious of a black guy and his anatomical make-up, but I don't think it's so much different then for any other ethnic group, as not everyone is the same, so curiosity is always there for people outside that culture.

And also, not every black person plays basket-ball, or even a sport in general .
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@ Fantasies00 - Go ahead gurl! Rock it! .

The only way you can feel "normal" is if you just be yourself. Wether it be a black guy, girl, or whatever ethnicity/gender, as long as you're being yourself, nothing else should matter. Especially the minds and the opinions of the ignorant.

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On a personal note; I always thought I only liked Black/ mixed guys like myself, because we have more in common, but recently, I've seen the appeal in other ethnicities, so this whole discussion[in real life aswell] about which one is better or whatever is really redundant and irrelivant and you should just be with who you like, not for what it is you like about them, especially externally.

mile:

[jaxc]

no, but than again what is?:biggrin joking)

[Fantasies00]

Thanks! And btw of your wondering why it's black guy is because the stereotype that black men are HUGE down their