Hello,
Coming out isnt easy in school years i waited til i left then i was dealing with adults but to be honest if u choose to go do it then tell those closest to you first to gain respect and only thing is its two words that count... Im Gay... Dont hesistate just put all cards on table and them breathe x
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I waited until I was 27,it doesn't get any easier
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It is the best thing you could do for yourself
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Why make it so complicated?
You'll know it from the heart, when the moment comes, and the right person with the right attitude is in front of you. It's that simple.
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I didn't come out much later. it wasn't much about coming out but being clear about it and creating rules for the way i needed to be treated.
A few of my friends came out slowly to a few close relatives and friends and then opened up as they went along. You don't need to hide by pretending to date girls but you can just be yourself and slowly embrace and explore the gay lifestyle and choose which path you want to take.
The worst way to do things is to simply drop one big coming out bomb to a crowd of people.
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“Burst down those closet doors once and for all, and stand up and start to fight.â€Â
― Harvey Milk
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Thanks everybody! It means alot! I will definently take in everything all you have told me. (:
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Greek Guy,
As you've seen and acknowledged, there's some great advice given above, but I'll add my 2p anyway.
You've already come out to the most important person in your life - YOU.
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