09-02-2012, 09:08 AM
Hi there. This is kind of weird to post, and I hope none of this is considered not appropriate for posting. But I was concerned and needed some advice since I can't see a doctor yet.
I have been recently have sex with my boyfriend. I have never had sex until these last two months. I am the bottom. He has a larger than average penis. Maybe....eight inches long, and very girthy. The last two times we had sex, he managed to hit my Prostate, and I ended up bleeding both anally and out of my penis.
I am aware that the prostate helps with the production and/or mixture of semen, so my concern is that we might have injured my prostate, thus the blood from both ends. There has been abslutely no pain what so ever, and I do plan on seeing a doctor after a week if anything seems to appear.
I have not seen any blood since the second time, which was Thursday morning. No blood in my pee I mean. I have not tried any form of sexual intercourse, or masturbation since to give my insides/penis time to heal if so needed.
I plan on not having sex or masturbating until the Thursday after next. I want to give it two weeks before we try anything again.
My question I guess is if this is common, or if I should be very alarmed. The first time he got my prostate, and the sex before that we didn't use lube and the first time really hurt. So I wasn't sure if they could be two separate injuries.
I masturbate a lot, possibly three times a day, so I wasn't sure if I happened to tear a vein in my penis as well as hurt myself during anal sex because thel ack of lube.
gah, sorry. I don't know what to say really. I guess the obvious is to just see a doctor, which I plan on doing, but until then I am left in the dark and need some guidance as to what I should do in the mean time. Or, at least some ideas as to what I could be facing since this issue isn't easy to google. Lol
thank you for reading, and thank you for your responses!
I have been recently have sex with my boyfriend. I have never had sex until these last two months. I am the bottom. He has a larger than average penis. Maybe....eight inches long, and very girthy. The last two times we had sex, he managed to hit my Prostate, and I ended up bleeding both anally and out of my penis.
I am aware that the prostate helps with the production and/or mixture of semen, so my concern is that we might have injured my prostate, thus the blood from both ends. There has been abslutely no pain what so ever, and I do plan on seeing a doctor after a week if anything seems to appear.
I have not seen any blood since the second time, which was Thursday morning. No blood in my pee I mean. I have not tried any form of sexual intercourse, or masturbation since to give my insides/penis time to heal if so needed.
I plan on not having sex or masturbating until the Thursday after next. I want to give it two weeks before we try anything again.
My question I guess is if this is common, or if I should be very alarmed. The first time he got my prostate, and the sex before that we didn't use lube and the first time really hurt. So I wasn't sure if they could be two separate injuries.
I masturbate a lot, possibly three times a day, so I wasn't sure if I happened to tear a vein in my penis as well as hurt myself during anal sex because thel ack of lube.
gah, sorry. I don't know what to say really. I guess the obvious is to just see a doctor, which I plan on doing, but until then I am left in the dark and need some guidance as to what I should do in the mean time. Or, at least some ideas as to what I could be facing since this issue isn't easy to google. Lol
thank you for reading, and thank you for your responses!