Separated dad having disagreement with his BF

[megumidesu]

. He then said "I can really see things were not as I though they were" and the fact that I knew how I'm putting him thru hell this weekend "really just makes things worse" because I know what this is doing to him.

0_o
what did he expect things to be like ?
i know a few people who have become involved with people who have children from previous relationships , and they've all been really good at understanding that the children will always come first . i don't understand how he can start a relationship with you and not realize immediately that things will be complicated ...

[Rainbowmum]

( I apologize in advance if my opinion or straight forwardness offends anyone)

Let's put this in perspective here.

Wake up!!!

Your son did not ask to be born nor did he ask to be put through a divorce and your responsibility as a parent does not end when you drop him off at the end of your weekend with him .

As for your boyfriend , he is an insecure over demanding drama queen that will have no problem what so ever giving you ultimatums, if you are happy to live in a emotional blackmail relationship , go for it .

Once again your child did not ask for this either.

You are a parent step up to the plate and take care of your responsibilities.