ok so i got a guy , he is 17, messed alot at a party ... He left because my dirty sex mood was activated and i scared him :| . So he called me 5 mins ago and wants to remeet at his palce, should i go ? i mean i am kinda into it , but he isn;t since he raned the 1st time...
So this quite the main reason i date only older...
Should i go ? Will i scare him? Do i need to get a "softer" aprouch? :| I suck at softer approuch :|
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That's a hard one to answer , do you want to give it another go?
Seriously though , it is entirely up to you as to what you are willing to forgo and change for him.
I know you can look out for yourself , but please, play safe regarding going to his home , tell someone where you are going , and when you get there tell him you just have to let your friend know you are there.
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It had nothing to do about that mom.... THe thing is that he is 17 , i am kinda violent with the sex things , don;t wanna scare the shit out of him , he seems like shy and stuff...
I have no worries with the beatings ...
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Well if you decide to go. Just make sure you tone it down so you both are comfortable and be gentle with him If you don't wanna scare him away
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Yeah man haha try starting with a nice pat or something! You know, guys will go a lot of places with a guy they trust and like because that's more like play and friends - but that trust and like thing kinda needs to be there first ya know? He may be a lil young for some of what you've been exposed to as well. Go easy with the guy!
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gaved it a pass :| I would have felt too wierd ...
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I hope it is not a silly thing to say... but why don't you just ask him out for a date?? The one where you get to talk a lot of silly stuff, laugh and get to know each other, meeting not in private, and it does not include going back to yours or his place in the end. I mean, if you are interested in him. It's unfamiliar waters for me, sorry if I sound stupid. Best of luck to you.
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i have never thinked i will do this
