being single

[Chris76]

Work, restore cars, and in the process of buying my first place...wish i had a little down time it would be nice :-)

[Double007]

I hear you. I've been wanting someone for a long time and it is really hard some days. Reading, cooking, watching a movie, shopping sprees, going to the gym and visiting coffee shops do it for me. I like coffee shops, especially those that I know there may be some potential bf's there. I'm not that big on "working on yourself" because I believe it's a lifelong process. Sure, you can work on being more giving, confident, etc but there are some good things about you too. I'm trying to get out of the habit of thinking that I won't have another relationship until I "get myself together." Hang in there and don't be too focused on what you don't have. Life is still good when you are single!