Hard Times.

[JohnnyBlaze]

Hello all,

Since I was kid, I was convinced that I was bi-sexual or possibly gay. Well, fast forwarding to know, I finally had a chance to do something with a guy, but I ended up whimping out. When i'm alone I always imagine doing things with guys, but when its the real deal, I get way to nervous and end up not doing anything. I've came to the conclusion that I like guys but don't like to do anything with them. I don't think there is a word for this though.

I'm wondering why this is? Does this happen to any of you guys?

[ThatRobGuy]

Hi Johnny,

What is it that makes you so nervous? Have you thought about that? Maybe if you can rationalize for yourself why you're nervous and "chicken out," it will help you understand better if a gay relationship (or just sex) is something you truly desire.

[Rainbowmum]

Have you thought that your body is not as yet ready?

The other contributing factors could be main stream societies brain washing as to what is or is not socially accepted.
Labels could be preventing you from committing to the whole act.

Stick around the guys could shed more light on it for you.

[JohnnyBlaze]

thanks for the responses.

[rover330]

whatever you want, you will do it if the time is right. don't do anything you are uncomfortable with.

by the same token, you don't want to look back years later and wonder, "I wish I would have..."

[dfiant]

I'm thinking that you need something special before you take the next step

[Counselor]

I'm thinking that you need something special before you take the next step

Like a condom or a douche.