Want to come out but not really sure...

[zeon]

Hello,
By the sounds of it i would say that people dont know not even your family... I would maybe advise first off securing first base and maybe notify some people in your family first because its best to get the worst lot out the way. From personal experience of coming out it can be the most rewarding time in life but it can also be the most fustrating and difficult time to do it because all you think about is how others will go... When you do come out stand proud and dont worry about how others will be because it isnt a phase and to be honest there is loads of people who are in your situation all over the world of all different ages. If anyone asks why your gay you just gotta say why are you straight? What made you you is what made me me and its called life...
You might get the whole chat thing but thats just normal i mean its all about accepting the sheer shock of it as some people get slightly winded but it does wear off...

Once family is sorted then go from there

Kindest regards

Aunty Zeon
Gayspeak agony aunt x