01-16-2013, 09:33 AM
I met this guy on okcupid one and a half months ago. He's white and I'm Asian. We lived in the different cities, but I was going to move to the city where he lived at that time. We talked on msn for the first months and met up in person a week ago, a week before I actually moved to the city. We were attracted to each other when we met each other for first time and jumped into intimate thing very quick. I moved to the city last Sunday. At that night, he came to visit my place. We had a long talk and ended up having sex again. He stayed for the night and left the next morning. We even had a quickie before he had to left my place. We met at his place the following night and last night at my place. We always had sex every time we met. Last night he stayed at my place again. We cuddled in the bed, trying to sleep. When he almost fell asleep, I whispered "I love you" to him. He's sleepy and didn't say anything back so I asked him if it's too heavy for him, he just shaked his head. This morning, we had a quickie again(yeah, we were like two horny dogs. LOL.). After we finished, we lay in bed for a while. I asked him how does he feel about the words I said to him last night, he just said he had no memory of what I'd said to him. I told him what I said. He didn't give me any feedback for like 30 seconds or so. We just lay side by side without saying anyword. Later, he said it's okay I said that to him and he has the same feeling for me too. But the funny thing is that he never said the words back to me.
I actually kinda regret saying those three words to him. It's too quick to do that cuz we've only dated 4 times. I'm worried that I gave him too much pressure.
He sent me some text mesages when he's back to his place this morning. Those messages are all about tiny silly things. I think it'd be a good sign that he still wanted to talked to me, but I really don't know. I'm lost now. Any advise?
I actually kinda regret saying those three words to him. It's too quick to do that cuz we've only dated 4 times. I'm worried that I gave him too much pressure.
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