hello. there was aboy who hurt himslef very bad becase of gay bulluing. it was very sad . and so much peple who was yong and old got bulling about being gay. good for me my family nnot mind it. but peple who was very bad agaenst gay pepole all the time. what can i do to help. i wont to help. its so sad. how can i help .
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yes.who was bullyed before. i was. i hate it.i wont to help peple.
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Be there for him, be a listening ear.
There may be no words that you can give him to undo what was done. But his knowing he can talk to you openly and honestly, without judgment may actually do far more healing than any words you can say.
The world is changing, slowly. In reality anti-hate rhetoric in most of the western world is lower than it was in the past, and in future will be even lower than today.
Hope is what we have. Hope can do all manner of things, even heal.
Give your friend a little hope of a better tomorrow.
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Sometime we think we have to have all of the answers, all of the fixes or all the right words to help someone we care about. We agonize of making a mistake and end up not helping at all.
We don't have to know it all or be it all, all we have to do is be there, listen and do our best to understand. Sometimes the best thing to say is simply "I'm here, I believe you and, I can listen."
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Joseph just being his friend will help. No one should be bullied its so wrong.
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hello sorry i said it wrong.it was not who i new frined . it was jusrt a boy i found out about.there was lots of pepple who hurt themselfs very bad becuse gay bulling . and try an kill themself. i wont to help peple who got gay bulling. thank you everyone
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