how to tell if guys like guys?

[hank]

Perhaps I well give a subtle but understandable sign

[Viltans]

Good idea Perhaps you will get more informations if he's single thanks to Valentine's day for example?

[hank]

Ooooo! Forgot about Valentines day. Yes that is soon

[Bowyn Aerrow]

Well no, you can't really go around saying 'Hi, I'm gay Hank' because you are only bi

How about you set your aim a tad lower and aim for being a friend, buddy buddy as you would with a guy you had no romantic interest in. How would you strike up a conversation and set out to make a friendship?


He may not be gay or bi, but he may be a good friend in the end. Get to know him a little, and either wait until the 'gay' topic comes in, or find an innocent way to bring it up - Gays in the Military, Gay Marriage - all rather 'safe' topics to get a bearing on where a person is if they are tolerant or not.

Oh and not on the first meeting.

Taller than you - well you are a tall fella, just checked your profile... So I can see where your wondering if his height is 'the thing' that is doing a number on you or not.

It could be. Then again it could be his scent, the way the light hits his hair, his eyes, his smile, or lack of smile - many tiny things could be in play here which meets your fancy.

I wouldn't discount it, but there may be more.

You'll do fine.

[Evan88]

Ask him if he wants to meet your hot and beautiful friend (girl), if he is not interested, then he is gay.

Anyway, asking him straight is the only sure way..

[hank]

Ask him if he wants to meet your hot and beautiful friend (girl), if he is not interested, then he is gay.

Anyway, asking him straight is the only sure way..

Yeah that is what I am thinking, just means I will have to be out to the world, my company uses that store quite a bit.

my company is also extremely gossipy, for such a large collection of strait male conservatives they love to gossip

[megumidesu]

Try asking him, "You ever tap that sweet little number in reception?" If he says, "Yeah, she's a slut.", he's straight.

and apparently a bit misogynistic lol


even if he does like girls , he could be bi . you should ask him ~

[hank]

and apparently a bit misogynistic lol


even if he does like girls , he could be bi . you should ask him ~

I have to find (what we call where I live) the gumpshun.

[Kat]

I know a few gay guys and one of then acts gay but the others don't so if I didn't know them well enough for them to tell me I wouldn't know if they were gay or not. The best way is to let them get to know you and see if they tell you I think.

[George]

I think is better first to catch up a conv. and begin a friendship so you get to know him better and its easily ask his opininion about same sex marriages etc.

About the height thing im the oppsite i fancy the shorties
Best of luck whatever you choose and hope it will end up well!