02-15-2013, 11:11 AM
Hi evereyone,
I've been dating this guy for almost two months now. We've a great time, and i really like him and he likes me. It's actually the first gay dating contact for me, i've had some hookups but nothing 'serious'.
There's on problem though. I can't get an orgasm with him around. Well it happend once, but most of the time i just can't come and this is really bothering me. I know it's all mental blablabla. So i told to myself, it'll be allright etc. Even didn't wank for almost a week, but without result. Btw, when I wank it takes me a lot of time to come as well.
Then there's this other thing. The guy i'm dating comes really quickly, so he wont let me do a lot to him
So when we have sex it's like he gives me attention 70% of the time and i take care of him for only 30%, i would like to do more for him 
I hope somebody has some advice for me. I'm quite positive thinking, but this is starting to become a real problem now
thanks!
I've been dating this guy for almost two months now. We've a great time, and i really like him and he likes me. It's actually the first gay dating contact for me, i've had some hookups but nothing 'serious'.
There's on problem though. I can't get an orgasm with him around. Well it happend once, but most of the time i just can't come and this is really bothering me. I know it's all mental blablabla. So i told to myself, it'll be allright etc. Even didn't wank for almost a week, but without result. Btw, when I wank it takes me a lot of time to come as well.
Then there's this other thing. The guy i'm dating comes really quickly, so he wont let me do a lot to him


I hope somebody has some advice for me. I'm quite positive thinking, but this is starting to become a real problem now

thanks!
