03-05-2013, 05:55 PM
Just wondering what you all think of this. I met a guy online a little over a month ago. We really hit it off and it seemed promising. Had a first date. Great time, I couldn't believe how much we had in common. After the date we texted a lot and he told me that he really liked me and if we were closer he would have stopped looking for somebody else altogether. He lives a few hours away but sometimes comes to my area for work. We didn't get the chance to meet up again for about 3 weeks because both of our schedules but we texted nearly every day. We were openly seeing other people but I was still encouraged. Finally had a second date which in my opinion was just as fun. He wasn't perfect for me but I was definitely interested in more dates and he acted similarly. We shared our first kiss - nothing more - that night.
Afterwards we talked for a few days as we had been, trying to organize the next date. Very suddenly he stopped answering me altogether. Finally he got back to me when he said he was really busy and just needed a vacation and he was really stressed and ignoring most of his friends. I told him I understood and said let me know when things are better or if I could help. Nothing. So a few days later I just texted him and said what are you doing this weekend? Nothing. It's been 4 days.
I'm sure he met someone else or he decided I wasn't so great after all. It is what it is and I don't really care anymore. I'm just disappointed that he is that inconsiderate of others to just drop me with no warning. I kind of want to send him a final message letting him no I'm sorry he ended things this way, but I'm debating if I should be the bigger man and just let it go.
I don't really care if I ever hear back from him. I want a relationship and can't have one with someone that is unreliable and flaky. Thoughts?
Afterwards we talked for a few days as we had been, trying to organize the next date. Very suddenly he stopped answering me altogether. Finally he got back to me when he said he was really busy and just needed a vacation and he was really stressed and ignoring most of his friends. I told him I understood and said let me know when things are better or if I could help. Nothing. So a few days later I just texted him and said what are you doing this weekend? Nothing. It's been 4 days.
I'm sure he met someone else or he decided I wasn't so great after all. It is what it is and I don't really care anymore. I'm just disappointed that he is that inconsiderate of others to just drop me with no warning. I kind of want to send him a final message letting him no I'm sorry he ended things this way, but I'm debating if I should be the bigger man and just let it go.
I don't really care if I ever hear back from him. I want a relationship and can't have one with someone that is unreliable and flaky. Thoughts?