Bowyn Aerrow Wrote:I fear that my next relationship will be abusive as ones in the past were.
I wish I could be naive enough to tell you Oh, no, it won't, I am sure...
But even if I omit that psychopath who is still lurking around here, I am afraid it's not that easy.
I always thought the life was not a candy shop.
We want jawbrakers and chocolate and we are pretty sure we can do without broccoli and beef soup.
But in real life? People - our potential partners - are mixed pots, right? It's not about wants and needs anymore. You always get more than you asked for. Something sweet, something bitter - like a whole course of meals.
Up until meeting you I didn't know that there were people who saw other people as candy :biggrin:
Yes you seem to be set to get your jawbreakers
The good thing is you know that about yourself. And you are intelligent enough to recognize that pattern.
I believe it's up to you, Bowyn. I believe that you have so much life experiences that finding the right one without making the same bad choice again, should be easier than it ever was