"you don't look gay to me"

[MisterTinkles]

I guess I'm a needle in a haystack, based on your analysis of that. Practically all of my friends are straight men. I have but a few gay guy friends, but I would say only one that's real close.

I don't care to hang out with gay people... they just urk me the wrong way. Not all, but most. I don't know why, it's just fact. It have nothing to do with inner homophobia, so don't go there. I just can't relate to them.

Hmmmmm "inner homophobia".....

Yeah, I "went" there!

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Just kidding you!!!

I usually get along better with married women than anybody else. My three best buds are married women and one of them is a grandma.

Ive tried being friends with gay men, but its like oil and battery acid.....it just dont mix.

[MisterTinkles]

Its really weird when people find out I'm gay. Most of the time I get comments like "you're gay? You're the last person I suspected would be gay!"

Really? Just really? What would help you sweetheart? Would you like me to come riding in on a sparkly purple unicorn farting rainbows trilling in a falsetto "heeeeere I ammmmmmmm!!!!!!!"

We gays come in all flavors, one would think people would wise up to that by now

[Kenny221]

I actually feel flattered when someone tells me that. I never did enjoy the stereotypical gay attitude( No offense to you guys XD) , so when I know that I'm considered as masculine, it feels pretty good.

[Tim18]

Its really weird when people find out I'm gay. Most of the time I get comments like "you're gay? You're the last person I suspected would be gay!"

Really? Just really? What would help you sweetheart? Would you like me to come riding in on a sparkly purple unicorn farting rainbows trilling in a falsetto "heeeeere I ammmmmmmm!!!!!!!"

We gays come in all flavors, one would think people would wise up to that by now

Yeah, you would have thought that by now they would have wised up too that fact.But no people don't realize that gay comes in many shades.

[Sylph]

Yeah, you would have thought that by now they would have wised up too that fact.But no people don't realize that gay comes in many shades.

Hence our fabulous rainbow lol.

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Well gee, most of you guys make me feel left out lol, my mommy says I exude a "gay aura" and that most people already know...before I even open my mouth.

I personally blame my feminine facial structure/frame, but that's genetics, so what are you gonna do :/

But actually, I feel quite proud that people look at me and go; "He's gay", cause I'm proud of it and wouldn't want to be any other way, whether they judge me based on stereotypical qualities I may exude or not, it still makes my little gay bell jingle whenever a girl I just met says to me "gurl, that guy is so gorgeous!" and laugh when I go "yes gurl!" .

Come to think of it... no one has even been shocked when I've said I was gay...

[Ekwarph]

Once, one guy (surprizingly, he's about 45 years old, far from being stupid and bisexual himself) told me that I didn't look gay and it's probably because I don't accept it and I'll become effeminated later. I had heard it many times, but from younger people, I was quite surprized of their ignorance yet.

I don't know what you think about it...maybe I'm destined to cure my nails listening to lady gaga.

Seriously I don't really care but it enforces stereotypes to gay people. I don't see homophobia or whatever but typically girls who say to me : "Oh you're gay ? You have good taste in clothes, I can bring you for a 5-hour shopping,...What ? You don't like it ? But you're gayy, I don't understaand" tend to annoy me ^^

[Brendan]

In my town of omnipresent plaid jackets and carhart work pants any guy with any amount of fashion sense is going to have his sexuality brought under suspicion by the redneck homophobe gestapho. My friends have been asked whether I'm gay or not a few times. I'm a "pretty" guy, sometimes I wear tight girly pants, and on occasion I wear pink (God forbid!).

But I don't act like the stereotype at all. The few people who know I'm bisexual were shocked when they found out.

[johnathan]

And it even goes beyond looks. People who know me say "you're not gay because...." and usually the "because" is something like "you don't know how to shop for clothes" or "you don't listen to xyz music" or "you can't decorate." I mean... this is coming FROM gays! Just goes to show, the stereotyping goes both ways.

[Marks]

I've had people ask me if I was gay and then say it is OK in the same breath, and then say you don't look gay. If it is within five hundred miles of where I live, I always say no.

[MisterTinkles]

I actually feel flattered when someone tells me that. I never did enjoy the stereotypical gay attitude( No offense to you guys XD) , so when I know that I'm considered as masculine, it feels pretty good.

I know what you mean thithter......
Im SOOO mathculine I juth canth thtand it!!!