04-05-2013, 02:33 AM
Aems Wrote:I know this is going to sound somewhat odd, but I was in the opposite position you are in right now; I had a GF a while ago just out of highschool. She was all the things you were talking about - perfect with the sense of humor, same hobbies, same conversational interest and physical activities...you name it.
The problem occurred when I started to want more freedom and felt like she was dragging on me. Wanting freedom is a weird thing sometimes because you don't know exactly what freedoms you want nor do you always have a perfect idea of what's restricting your autonomy. Long story short, the problem showed up sexually. I wasn't interested and I made up (shamefully) about a thousand excuses.
I'm not trying to say that's exactly what you're dealing with but I just know the feeling of loving someone while having a stale kind of sexual intimacy. It was really awkward and stifling for me.
Yea its kinda tough being so in love and being so compatible in every way but that