I'm confused?
Is it that you are very hairy and need to shave is the reason you are not confident? or that you shave and think that gives away you are gay?
Both I guess are the same answer, instead of thinking you need to be confident, which is slightly different to not giving a care what people think of you, try for that instead of the confidence, as once you stop caring what others think of you then the confidence will come too.
oh and straight men shave too, in the USA more so, have you not been in a gym locker room lately LOL
or if all else fails, stop shaving so much, gay guys like hairy men too (me)
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