Hello all. i am new here this is my first post. I am 30yo basically str8 man with kids and all. i go to the weightroom 3 days a week, the whole nine. years ago i had an underwear catalog in my mailbox and looked it through and noticed it made me hard each time. then found i liked gay porn. i then met an older guy (i was 18 at the time) and began visiting him at night where we would watch porn and play around and it was very enjoyable. Now years later ive met up with a diff. guy and sent emails and pics back and forth, we both have an underwear thing and have been talking about doing the same kind of thing. I tried it with the last guy one time but dont remember much of it, havent done it since but i think i might try letting this guy, he is in rather good shape and well hung. what do u think?
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Infidelity is never an acceptable option. You should probably get a divorce.
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I think that you should think of the effect it would have on your wife and children should the truth come out. Either give up your obsession or get a divorce.
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I'm not the 'open relationship' type person myself, but if you and the wife agree to such then you can make it work.
If she isn't aware of your having fun on the side, and hasn't been asked for her permission, this is cheating or technically cheating. I assure you divorce lawyers really love the cases where there is cheating, especially when its a man who has children, they will sue your pants off and make your life such a misery you will pray to God you never had a dick.
Now I sympathize with you on the having married and gotten kids while you are potentially a homosexual, but the reality is you made choices and those come with responsibilities. The rational way out is to either ask permission from the wife to explore this, or end the marriage and then go out and explore.
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That's three posters now with the same opinion.
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Now make that 5 posters that share the same opinion about this.
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new guy/old habits
