Some recent threads have gotten me curious, so here's one of my research questions for everybody;
First off, I want to give some definition to what I consider "fat" and "skinny" for this research project. And Im not talking about muscle, only fat vs skinny.
Fat for men - when you have enough gut to hide your feet from view, when looking straight down.
Fat for women - when you gut is half the frontal size (or more) of your breasts.
Skinny for men - when you look emaciated or can see bone through your skin.
Skinny for women - when you look emaciated or can see bone through your skin, or your real breasts look like implants.
(normal or average sized people are classified as "skinny" for this research project)
I have this divided into separate questions.
(please pick one answer)
1. Do you consider yourself fat or skinny?
2. Do you date fat or skinny people?
3. If you consider yourself fat, have you dated skinny people?
4. If you consider yourself skinny, have you dated fat people?
5. If you are in a relationship, is your mate fat or skinny?
6. If your mate is fat, were they that way when you met?
7. If you are single, can you HONESTLY see yourself settling down with a "fat" person?
8. If you cannot bring yourself to date or have sex with a fat person, what is the single most important reason you cannot bring yourself to be with them?
9. Do you have fat friends?
10. What do you consider "too fat"?
11. What do you consider "too skinny"?
12. Who would you rather marry.....
a. someone who matches your ideals on a "perfect mate", but they are fat.
b. someone who is skinny, a decent person, but doesnt match your "perfect mate"
status so much.
Just like everybody else, fat people have pigeonholed stereotypes. They range from one end of the spectrum to the other.
Some Fat peoples "labels":
Stupid
Lazy
Worthless
Lethargic
Insecure
Undisciplined
Disgusting
Passive
Jolly
Happy
Glad to be alone
Dirty
Filthy
Slobs
Pigs
Hogs
Beached whales
Dead weight
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1. Do you consider yourself fat or skinny?
I'm a fatty 
2. Do you date fat or skinny people?
Yeah, I probably would.
3. If you consider yourself fat, have you dated skinny people?
never dated
7. If you are single, can you HONESTLY see yourself settling down with a "fat" person?
Yes, I would....I mean some fat guys are just plain adorable and cute!
9. Do you have fat friends?
Yes.....
10. What do you consider "too fat"?
I don't know...it's hard to explain it....I wanted to say 'having trouble getting up the stairs' but then again, I feel like that's already way too fat.....but I don't know how to explain it in a way......got it....As long as they don't take up 2 bus seats when sitting down.....eh...that's the best I can come up with even tho I'm not quite satisfied with my answer....
12. Who would you rather marry.....
A definitely. As long as I can find you attractive enough to me, yeah it's a go. dun worry about it...I mean it would be odd to be in a relationship where the other person can't even turn you on right? I mean as long as I find the guy attractive( by my standards, idc about other ppl) , and the personality is great , then it already sounds like mr.'right' to me!
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Quote:1. Do you consider yourself fat or skinny?
2. Do you date fat or skinny people?
3. If you consider yourself fat, have you dated skinny people?
4. If you consider yourself skinny, have you dated fat people?
5. If you are in a relationship, is your mate fat or skinny?
6. If your mate is fat, were they that way when you met?
7. If you are single, can you HONESTLY see yourself settling down with a "fat" person?
8. If you cannot bring yourself to date or have sex with a fat person, what is the single most important reason you cannot bring yourself to be with them?
9. Do you have fat friends?
10. What do you consider "too fat"?
11. What do you consider "too skinny"?
12. Who would you rather marry.....
a. someone who matches your ideals on a "perfect mate", but they are fat.
b. someone who is skinny, a decent person, but doesnt match your "perfect mate"
status so much.
1. I'm skinny
2. I've not dated a fat person
3. n/a
4. nope
5. n/a
6. n/a
7. No
8. It's all about attraction for me baby
9. I'm friends with diverse people. And yes.
10. Getting tired when driving up hill. Yes I've met someone who got puffed while driving up the hill.
11. not eating or not eating much and when people don't get enough nutrition.
12. Probably a.
Tho I need to be attracted to my mate yo! And if there personality is attractive enough then hell yeah.
I'm a bit vain u.u
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1. Do you consider yourself fat or skinny?
Fat
2. Do you date fat or skinny people?
Skinny
3. If you consider yourself fat, have you dated skinny people?
Yes
4. If you consider yourself skinny, have you dated fat people?
N/A
5. If you are in a relationship, is your mate fat or skinny?
N/A
6. If your mate is fat, were they that way when you met?
N/A
7. If you are single, can you HONESTLY see yourself settling down with a "fat" person?
Yes
8. If you cannot bring yourself to date or have sex with a fat person, what is the single most important reason you cannot bring yourself to be with them?
N/A
9. Do you have fat friends?
Yes
10. What do you consider "too fat"?
The point where you wheeze and walk
11. What do you consider "too skinny"?
When I can see their ribs and skeletal structure
12. Who would you rather marry.....
a. someone who matches your ideals on a "perfect mate", but they are fat.
b. someone who is skinny, a decent person, but doesnt match your "perfect mate"
status so much.
I choose A
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1. Do you consider yourself fat or skinny?
Neither. I used to be quite fat, but I lost over 70 lbs a couple of years ago. I still struggle with weight a bit, but nothing too serious.
2. Do you date fat or skinny people?
First I need to date people.
3. If you consider yourself fat, have you dated skinny people?
See answer #2
4. If you consider yourself skinny, have you dated fat people?
See answer #3
5. If you are in a relationship, is your mate fat or skinny?
See answer #4
6. If your mate is fat, were they that way when you met?
See answer #5
7. If you are single, can you HONESTLY see yourself settling down with a "fat" person?
Yes. I've been attracted to "fat" people.
8. If you cannot bring yourself to date or have sex with a fat person, what is the single most important reason you cannot bring yourself to be with them?
During a diabetic haze, I'm afraid they might mistake me for a lamb chop. I'm very savory.
9. Do you have fat friends?
I have phat friends.
10. What do you consider "too fat"?
Violet, when she ate the gum she wasn't supposed to eat and turned into a blueberry.
11. What do you consider "too skinny"?
I dunno. If they're healthy then I guess there's no such thing.
12. Who would you rather marry.....
a. someone who matches your ideals on a "perfect mate", but they are fat.
b. someone who is skinny, a decent person, but doesnt match your "perfect mate"
status so much.
Of course a.
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1. Do you consider yourself fat or skinny?
Skinny
2. Do you date fat or skinny people?
So far skinny, but it's not like I ever turned away someone fat before. It probably has to do with that I did most of my random dating young and was thus most likely to hook up with young and/or physically active people. I can actually be intrigued be fat women if it emphasizes their physical form rather "humpty dumpty" looking.
3. If you consider yourself fat, have you dated skinny people?
n/a
4. If you consider yourself skinny, have you dated fat people?
No.
But just my observation, it seems to me that the more fat a woman has the higher her sex drive is likely to be. I'm not claiming that's universally true, but most asexuals I've known were very thin (and I also had a lot of trouble with puberty because I didn't have enough body fat to produce estrogen or some such) while those with more on their bones seemed a lot more sexually active, and I don't think it's because they're insecure because I've overheard too many say they dropped someone for not giving them all the sex they needed (which means they're with someone for the sex, not that they're having sex so someone will be with them). And so when I was younger that was a point in their favor as I felt less likely to be rejected (though as it happened others always came to me rather than the other way around, so it was just how my mind worked).
5. If you are in a relationship, is your mate fat or skinny?
Skinny
6. If your mate is fat, were they that way when you met?
n/a
7. If you are single, can you HONESTLY see yourself settling down with a "fat" person?
n/a (but yes)
8. If you cannot bring yourself to date or have sex with a fat person, what is the single most important reason you cannot bring yourself to be with them?
n/a
9. Do you have fat friends?
Yes, though none close IRL.
10. What do you consider "too fat"?
Where a medical problem...and looking like a blob. A woman in particular who has most of her fat in some parts to emphasize her femininity may still be attractive to me.
11. What do you consider "too skinny"?
Medical condition
12. Who would you rather marry.....
a. someone who matches your ideals on a "perfect mate", but they are fat.
b. someone who is skinny, a decent person, but doesnt match your "perfect mate" status so much.
A.
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1. Do you consider yourself fat or skinny? Skinny
2. Do you date fat or skinny people? skinny
3. If you consider yourself fat, have you dated skinny people? na
4. If you consider yourself skinny, have you dated fat people? Never
5. If you are in a relationship, is your mate fat or skinny? na
6. If your mate is fat, were they that way when you met? na
7. If you are single, can you HONESTLY see yourself settling down with a "fat" person? not really
8. If you cannot bring yourself to date or have sex with a fat person, what is the single most important reason you cannot bring yourself to be with them? I feel intimidated be one of the boys that raped me in high school was fat, and it is the same reason I can't date older guys or guy around my age, younger guys are safer, more empathetic and tend to ask less questions and accept things as they are.
9. Do you have fat friends? Yes
10. What do you consider "too fat"? I would consider too fat someone is technically obese and weight affects their general health.
11. What do you consider "too skinny"? Gaunt, protruding bones.
12. Who would you rather marry.....
a. someone who matches your ideals on a "perfect mate", but they are fat.
b. someone who is skinny, a decent person, but doesnt match your "perfect mate"
status so much. I would prefer to remain single if they were the 2 options.
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1. Do you consider yourself fat or skinny?
Skinny
2. Do you date fat or skinny people?
Both - but I actually prefer more padded than skin and bone
3. If you consider yourself fat, have you dated skinny people?
N/A
4. If you consider yourself skinny, have you dated fat people?
Yes
5. If you are in a relationship, is your mate fat or skinny?
N/A
6. If your mate is fat, were they that way when you met?
N/A
7. If you are single, can you HONESTLY see yourself settling down with a "fat" person?
Yes
8. If you cannot bring yourself to date or have sex with a fat person, what is the single most important reason you cannot bring yourself to be with them?
N/A
9. Do you have fat friends?
Yes
10. What do you consider "too fat"?
When the rolls of fat cause you to not be able to breath with moderate exercise, like walking up a flight of stairs. As health reasons.
11. What do you consider "too skinny"?
Skin and bones. Which is a tad less fat than myself currently As health reasons.
12. Who would you rather marry.....
a. someone who matches your ideals on a "perfect mate", but they are fat.
b. someone who is skinny, a decent person, but doesnt match your "perfect mate"
status so much.
A
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MisterTinkles Wrote:1. Do you consider yourself fat or skinny?
Average, leaning on slim.
2. Do you date fat or skinny people?
Lol wtf. Slightly chubby people are most attractive to me, but skinny and average people can be attactive too.
3. If you consider yourself fat, have you dated skinny people?
Uhm, I'm not fat, so.
4. If you consider yourself skinny, have you dated fat people?
...This is surprisingly complicated. I had cuddles with a fat person but it wasn't technically dating, shall we say not available?
5. If you are in a relationship, is your mate fat or skinny?
I'M A STRONG INDEPENDENT BLACK WOMAN YO.
6. If your mate is fat, were they that way when you met?
I'M A STRONG INDEPENDENT BLACK WOMAN YO.
7. If you are single, can you HONESTLY see yourself settling down with a "fat" person?
Please see: I find chubbier people attractive.
8. If you cannot bring yourself to date or have sex with a fat person, what is the single most important reason you cannot bring yourself to be with them?
.........................
9. Do you have fat friends?
Yes.
10. What do you consider "too fat"?
Where someone physically can't get out of bed has an oxygen tank heart problems sleeps all the time
11. What do you consider "too skinny"?
Anorexia? Also if I can see your bones jutting out I automatically think you're gross. Sorry.
12. Who would you rather marry.....
a. someone who matches your ideals on a "perfect mate", but they are fat.
b. someone who is skinny, a decent person, but doesnt match your "perfect mate"
status so much.
"But they are fat". BITCH THAT WOULD BE A BONUS THIS QUESTION IS DUMB.
Just like everybody else, fat people have pigeonholed stereotypes. They range from one end of the spectrum to the other.
Also I erased your labels. They were dumb. I didn't like them. 
Istuckmyreplyinthequoteandboldedit
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Wade Wrote:1. Do you consider yourself fat or skinny?
Neither. I used to be quite fat, but I lost over 70 lbs a couple of years ago. I still struggle with weight a bit, but nothing too serious.
2. Do you date fat or skinny people?
First I need to date people.
3. If you consider yourself fat, have you dated skinny people?
See answer #2
4. If you consider yourself skinny, have you dated fat people?
See answer #3
5. If you are in a relationship, is your mate fat or skinny?
See answer #4
6. If your mate is fat, were they that way when you met?
See answer #5
7. If you are single, can you HONESTLY see yourself settling down with a "fat" person?
Yes. I've been attracted to "fat" people.
8. If you cannot bring yourself to date or have sex with a fat person, what is the single most important reason you cannot bring yourself to be with them?
During a diabetic haze, I'm afraid they might mistake me for a lamb chop. I'm very savory.
9. Do you have fat friends?
I have phat friends.
10. What do you consider "too fat"?
Violet, when she ate the gum she wasn't supposed to eat and turned into a blueberry.
11. What do you consider "too skinny"?
I dunno. If they're healthy then I guess there's no such thing.
12. Who would you rather marry.....
a. someone who matches your ideals on a "perfect mate", but they are fat.
b. someone who is skinny, a decent person, but doesnt match your "perfect mate"
status so much.
Of course a.
OMG...you always make my day!!! LMAO.
A sarcastic man is a perfect man!!!
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