You know how it is Spoty.... some of the worst faults can sometimes be a blessing in disguise... or an advantage. It's the old Yin and Yang thing.
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well my faults are: 1º shy, 2º Disorganaized, 3º Boring, 4º Bottle my emotions, 5º impatient, well normally when i'm with children around.
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I also remember doing this with the cousellor I had when I was suffering from my sleeping problems. She would ask me what I thought was a bad quality about myself and then get me to make it into a good quality. It was useful to help me stop thinking so negatively about everything.
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I'm a worryer, the slightest tiff or slow conversation makes me think people hate me.
I'm an undereater - due to all of the immense worrying and depression
I'm shy when I first meet people, meaning my dates never go well and I usually don't get more than 1 :frown:
I'm obsessive - I worry and over-examine all the little details thinking they mean more
And finally I have a very bad way of not saying what I mean, or saying what I mean when I don't mean to...
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1) I am way too paranoid
2) I am quite obsessive
3) I am really shy to begin with
4) I am very non-confrontational and so easilly walked all over
5) I am not very open with my feelings
1) I don't show my paranoia, but I do suffer from it and it sometimes torments me so much that I am in tears. I often think into things too much, overanalyse things and it leads me down a path I don't really want to follow...
2) Yes, I develop obsessions with things. And then that is all the occupies my mind ever. And I can never think of anything else. Such as Ian. And I've just realised how much I keep telling him I love him and although he says it back, I want to stop saying it because it's meant to be something special and although I mean it with all my heart, saying it over and over takes away some of the meaning, but I just can't help but say it.
3) Yes, shyness. I am extremely shy when you first meet me. Takes a couple of times before I start coming out of my shell.
4) I don't like to voice my opinions very often, I rarely protest or do anything that is gonna cause an argument as I don't like getting into confrontations. Which means when people owe me money, if I'm gonna do something that I know someone doesn't agree with etc. I'll avoid the issue to avoid confrontation -which often leads to people walking all over me / using me.
5) I'm a bottler. I have thoughts and feelings about things but because of 4) I won't bring them up. I keep everything inside and every few months have a mini-melt down one evening to get everything off my chest and then I feel all refreshed again for the next few months
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1. Shy - When I first meet people
2. Bottle things up - I don't think I have melted down yet and its been 19 years lol
3. Lazy - To the point were I can do nothing all day :S
4. Messy - Bad for my mum :S
5. Don't trust people, unless I know them well
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1. impatient
2. too talkative
3. day dreamer
4. plan too far into the future (i like to plan things out by the years)
5. binge eater/crazy
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1 - Talk waaaaay to much
2 - Have a little cleaning OCD
3 - Watch big brother
4 - Sometimes shy, sometimes the leader (i should just pick one)
5 - Will hold a grudge forever and get payback... should just let it go
im not all bad, i dont drink, smoke, not messy, like cher...
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