why?

[Wade]

Of course don't do it. Because I have no actual life experience, everything I know about the world and relationships comes from movies, and my careful and repeated study of "Chasing Amy" says nothing good can come from it.


Then again, according to "Y Tu Mama Tambien," it could turn out great!

Just pick a movie and go for it, I say.

[Counselor]

Tell him it's fine as long as it's with his dad or brother.

[SolemnBoy]

Why are some people so skeptical towards this? Requesting a threeway is in no sense "a sign of a cheater" - it's probably one of the most common sexual fantasies out there. Once you have a relationship and it's getting intimate it might be a good idea to, you know, actually discuss your fantasies with the other person. Of course it's not always going to be compatible with what the other person wants but the discussion itself is a lot better than sexual moralism and stupid assumptions.

[MisterTinkles]

When I was a child, I did childish things.

When I grew up, I gave up childish things.

When I became an adult, I had fantasies of others.

When I promised myself to another, I gave up fantasies of others.

[East]

Why are some people so skeptical towards this? Requesting a threeway is in no sense "a sign of a cheater" - it's probably one of the most common sexual fantasies out there. Once you have a relationship and it's getting intimate it might be a good idea to, you know, actually discuss your fantasies with the other person. Of course it's not always going to be compatible with what the other person wants but the discussion itself is a lot better than sexual moralism and stupid assumptions.

You are a wise one, indeed.

[SolemnBoy]

When I was a child, I did childish things.

When I grew up, I gave up childish things.

When I became an adult, I had fantasies of others.

When I promised myself to another, I gave up fantasies of others.

Here's to assuming our own views on morality, sex and romance shall dictate, forever I may add, what other people may or may not desire or even suggest in their relationships. Cheers!

[chrisconker]

hehe Go for it!!

[East]

Here's to assuming our own views on morality, sex and romance shall dictate, forever I may add, what other people may or may not desire or even suggest in their relationships. Cheers!

Sexual fantasies are healthy...and normal. Discussing them openly without shame and guilt is a cornerstone of a good relationship. I would be a bit uncomfortable thinking I was the be all/end all for any man. A tad too controlling and puritanical for my tastes.