06-10-2013, 05:46 PM
Hi,
there is this guy in our company. He is gay, we are friends, we talk almost daily. My problems is I am in love with him. He is not, and I don't want to be. Because I know we are simply not meant for each other.
I just don't know HOW to do it. It's been going on for more than a year. I thought I was over him. I am not. I get jealous when he talks to other guys. Not angry jealous. More like painfully jealous. It's silly and immature, and I don't want to feel that way.
I googled and read many articles, but they didn't help. I have no reason to hate him, I love his flaws, he didn't hurt me. He is Mr. Perfect, but not Mr. Right.
I don't want to quit my job and leave. What else can I do? Please share your ideas or stories, good ones, bad ones. Sometimes I laugh at myself, because of how silly I am, but sometimes it just hurts. Maybe you have/had your own gorgeous co-workers or classmates, and we can at least have a good time sharing those stories. I am afraid that there is no way out of it other than time...
Thanks
there is this guy in our company. He is gay, we are friends, we talk almost daily. My problems is I am in love with him. He is not, and I don't want to be. Because I know we are simply not meant for each other.
I just don't know HOW to do it. It's been going on for more than a year. I thought I was over him. I am not. I get jealous when he talks to other guys. Not angry jealous. More like painfully jealous. It's silly and immature, and I don't want to feel that way.
I googled and read many articles, but they didn't help. I have no reason to hate him, I love his flaws, he didn't hurt me. He is Mr. Perfect, but not Mr. Right.
I don't want to quit my job and leave. What else can I do? Please share your ideas or stories, good ones, bad ones. Sometimes I laugh at myself, because of how silly I am, but sometimes it just hurts. Maybe you have/had your own gorgeous co-workers or classmates, and we can at least have a good time sharing those stories. I am afraid that there is no way out of it other than time...
Thanks
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