dfiant

[SolemnBoy]

Please close this thread as soon as possible. Everyone's blowing everything out of proportion, dfiant was never really attacked. If he, like you all say, was known to be provocative and voice strong opinions, a little sarcasm shouldn't have made him leave.

[Tyrion]

I personally think everyone is being a bit over-dramatic. I have no doubt that dfiant feels like he was being attacked.. I doubt he's making it up (if anything he seems like an honest person) -- yet at the same time it seems like no one is really accepting everyones opinions as their own and leaving it at that. Debate is awesome.. strong opinions are awesome... as long as people stick to them without getting overly offended and doing silly things . After reading the threads in question, it seems most people are over-reacting..

In my view Dfiant's opinion was fine. Debating that opinion is also fine..

In other words, everyone should untangle their panties.. and should have untangled their panties before deleting accounts, getting upset, etc etc.

I know it's none of my business of course, I'm just a spectator.. but it's just my two cents!

Anyway, I still say we should all hold hands frolic.. but if not I guess simply departing both topics and moving on to new things would also suffice..

*leaves topic* :p

[Kiid]

You're butthurt because I pointed out that some people don't appreciate being referred to as faggots? ...great, now I have the word faggot saved to my phone dictionary. Fucking terrific.

[SolemnBoy]

Okay I'll try to just end this whole thing once and for all. Probably won't succeed though. These are all the responses to dfiant prior to his leaving.

"So basically all self-proclaimed bisexuals are your boyfriend? I see. I can't wait to find a boyfriend so I can take his behaviour and apply it to millions of other human beings! Offensive generalizations really are the way to go nowadays! So 2013 don't you think?"



"i only show attraction to my wife but that doesn't mean i'm hikarisexual
(hikari being my wife's name)
i know a bisexual woman in a long term heterosexual relationship , but she still shows attraction to women . she's still totally monogamous though"



"I don't believe in strict polarized sexual binary, I don't believe it can exist. I believe in fucking everything that moves and while I believe that a person can have an attraction to someone of one gender at a given time, it does not make them heterosexual or homosexual, it makes them limit themselves until their loins are all shriveled up and pruny."




"I identify as bi, and your post didn't piss me off. I think your experience is probably limited, and you have made some snap judgements based on that experience.

I am dating a guy, and I am monogamous with that guy. If I am date a girl, I am monogamous with that girl. Lately I have been with a guy, but it has been a little rocky. There are a couple of women who are clearly interested in me. My guy has been great, and I will definitely end things with him before I choose to go with anyone else, guy or gal.

F*ck my first statement. I identify as 'sexual'. No labels, no limits. If you can't deal, that's not my problem."




"So if someone were truly ambidextrous and wrote with his right hand on Monday then he'd be right-handed, whereas if he then wrote with his left hand the next day he'd become left-handed?"






OK, now you pissed me off. By "active bisexual" I assume you mean someone who wants to f*ck anything that moves on two legs..? I have been an active bisexual my entire life, knowing that both men and women turn me on. If you're gay does that mean you want to f*ck every guy within your visual range?! I suspect not."






Kindly grant me the consideration that my sexuality does not make me a slut, with no capacity for loyalty or monogamous love. I was married to a woman for 19 years, and now I have a boyfriend of 7 months. I never cheated on either of them, not that the opportunity didn't present itself. I am loyal to a fault, whether you believe that is possible or not."

These are all the responses. I went a little overboard with the sarcasm but in the end it wasn't that bad. These are some of dfiant's responses.

"May I please hand you a fuck off pill?

This comment is kind of like ' what next, marry your dog.' Sort of comment"

"Please show me the same respect for my beliefs and please try refrain from degrading ones belief with stupid comments". This was a response to quote number 2 up above. It was in no way degrading.

"He'll, why don't I just leave gay speak all together because I am surrounded by the same dumb cunts in real life that I'm finding here and hoped to come here and get away from?"

"Fuck off the lot of you, see ya"

I liked dfiant a lot too while he was a member but those of you who are upset over him having been "attacked" need to realize that it didn't even happen to begin with. In fact, he was doing most of the attacking himself.

[Nick9]

OT:
dfiant, I am afraid that my relationship with you won't ever be easy I read just one of your new posts in another thread, but thought, WHO, on earth, would pick an avatar like that one?
Yes, I find it offending - just like you intended. Immature too, though. And I was thinking, should I get pissed and offended every time I'll come across this guy? What about testing the ignore list feature?

But then I thought, Hey, his posts are not so bad... It won't kill me to block just his avi And then I realized, it was you :biggrin: Welcome back

[Kiid]

I would like to hand you a 'Get Fucked' pill if you try to tell me ONE MORE TIME HOW THE FUCK I SHOULD FEEL.

You should feel like.... Umm.... Rainbows!

[Kiid]

I just praised you in another thread...not going to tell you which one, you are going to have to go searching for it

I would have missed the opportunity to get to know you if I had stayed away, and that would have been my loss.

PS The avatar is actually me, taken this morning. The avatar for dfiant was also me imitating being on a crucifix It is also not my intention to offend, it is just that what other may find offensive I don't find offensive and prefer to find the humour in things

I don't see why people can't play on words and pictures. We do it all the time with cats on facebook -.-

[Lilitu]

This is a reason why I'm not so active in the forum any more. People have different opinions, that DOES NOT mean that you're righteous to shove your opinion down in someones throat. This was basically a thread to say good bye and best of hopes for him, and it has already turned into a backstabbing discussion.

I'll miss him anyhow, hope that you'll be back one day and take care until that day Daz

He's back. Hallelujah

[Tyrion]

Uh he's back already lol

[Tyrion]

Dam you lilitu, you beat me by a few seconds