06-15-2013, 12:44 AM
Ohhhhh kayyy Gurlz and Hoes, let me get in on this Bitch! Real Talk.
Now, I am extremely sensitive Mr.Cardigan, probably a class 4 Empath by scientific measures, but that does not mean I am St.Theresa or the Pope, nor do I want to be.
I have an insane respect for Spirituality and Nature and People in general, but what people don't often understand is words are just words. The intent and actions give them power, and only you can allow such power to afflict you.
As a Sensitive person, this is something you learn from day one, and develop walls and shields for your sensitivity, as opposed to people who don't give two gay left fucks, such as my Kiid they are not burdened with walls or shields...not always anyway.
So Sensitivity is not a valid excuse unless you allow for it to control you. You must learn how to regulate it, as I personally get afflicted by peoples emotions all the time, but have learned to regulate the levels at which they affect me and act accordingly.
Someone get's rude, I do not necessarily always get rude back, but instead flip the switch and kill'em with kindness.
So just because someone calls you a name you find has a negative meaning to it, does not automatically make it a negative word, nor does it make the speaker a rude person, but like myself, is just having fun or speaks that way normally. Get over it Sis.
And why are such trivial words such as Sis,Gurl and Baby seen as offensive? What the fuck? Seriously, my clit and you need an introduction.
Like, everyone here calls each other by these names(normally girls and guys who call girls these things), so does that make my whole flappin country and culture rude and offensive? I think not hoe, cause I'll have you know Bermudians are the most kind and happy people you would probably ever meet in your gay ass life!
My coworker whom I am cool with, calls me Queer, as a nickname! Not to be rude or offensive.
A lot of people here find me vulgar, but the thing is, I am very kind, I do not go out of my way to offend a person and I respect people, if you were to tell me a certain word seriously causes you distress, I wouldn't use it toward you, obvi!
And a person who uses a lexicon in which "offensive" words reside is not necessarily ignorant or uneducated, cause I'll have you know, I am neither of those things to the 10th degree. It's just being carefree, try it sometime. It'll bless your life.
And I don't like Politics, sorry. Bill Clinton can bite my clit, Hilary can eat me out and Barrack can kiss my Bussy.
^ that's being rude. Not calling a friend or supposed to be friend, Sis or Gurl.
So many people find my whole embodiment to be offensive and I don't understand it? Is it an American thing? A white person thing(even though sweeties like Kiid prove otherwise)...what is it?
I'm Feminine, Carribean, Like Reggae, Have Dreadlocks, am partially Black and have a very open speech. And yet all these things are looked down upon?
Well I won't apologize for who I am.
Like Paul said, we are here to be a Community and the key words being Unity, atleast to me anyway. Stop discriminating, because however vulgar I may be, I never discriminate against people and that Queers and Dears, is the most offensive thing going on here.
So let's all have a convo with our brains and get it together Sis, cause soon, there'll be no one left here at this rate. I've already lost several of my gurls in this petty war and I don't want to lose anymore, especially the new ones I've met.
One Love hoes <3
Now, I am extremely sensitive Mr.Cardigan, probably a class 4 Empath by scientific measures, but that does not mean I am St.Theresa or the Pope, nor do I want to be.
I have an insane respect for Spirituality and Nature and People in general, but what people don't often understand is words are just words. The intent and actions give them power, and only you can allow such power to afflict you.
As a Sensitive person, this is something you learn from day one, and develop walls and shields for your sensitivity, as opposed to people who don't give two gay left fucks, such as my Kiid they are not burdened with walls or shields...not always anyway.
So Sensitivity is not a valid excuse unless you allow for it to control you. You must learn how to regulate it, as I personally get afflicted by peoples emotions all the time, but have learned to regulate the levels at which they affect me and act accordingly.
Someone get's rude, I do not necessarily always get rude back, but instead flip the switch and kill'em with kindness.
So just because someone calls you a name you find has a negative meaning to it, does not automatically make it a negative word, nor does it make the speaker a rude person, but like myself, is just having fun or speaks that way normally. Get over it Sis.
And why are such trivial words such as Sis,Gurl and Baby seen as offensive? What the fuck? Seriously, my clit and you need an introduction.
Like, everyone here calls each other by these names(normally girls and guys who call girls these things), so does that make my whole flappin country and culture rude and offensive? I think not hoe, cause I'll have you know Bermudians are the most kind and happy people you would probably ever meet in your gay ass life!
My coworker whom I am cool with, calls me Queer, as a nickname! Not to be rude or offensive.
A lot of people here find me vulgar, but the thing is, I am very kind, I do not go out of my way to offend a person and I respect people, if you were to tell me a certain word seriously causes you distress, I wouldn't use it toward you, obvi!
And a person who uses a lexicon in which "offensive" words reside is not necessarily ignorant or uneducated, cause I'll have you know, I am neither of those things to the 10th degree. It's just being carefree, try it sometime. It'll bless your life.
And I don't like Politics, sorry. Bill Clinton can bite my clit, Hilary can eat me out and Barrack can kiss my Bussy.
^ that's being rude. Not calling a friend or supposed to be friend, Sis or Gurl.
So many people find my whole embodiment to be offensive and I don't understand it? Is it an American thing? A white person thing(even though sweeties like Kiid prove otherwise)...what is it?
I'm Feminine, Carribean, Like Reggae, Have Dreadlocks, am partially Black and have a very open speech. And yet all these things are looked down upon?
Well I won't apologize for who I am.
Like Paul said, we are here to be a Community and the key words being Unity, atleast to me anyway. Stop discriminating, because however vulgar I may be, I never discriminate against people and that Queers and Dears, is the most offensive thing going on here.
So let's all have a convo with our brains and get it together Sis, cause soon, there'll be no one left here at this rate. I've already lost several of my gurls in this petty war and I don't want to lose anymore, especially the new ones I've met.
One Love hoes <3