06-22-2013, 03:39 PM
Hi all. Im new here. Basically looking for some advice.
So im a 28 yr old guy in a relationship with another guy who ive had a long history with. We have been together for almost a year but have been seeing each other for about 3 years. (he had a gf for most of it. now they arent together and we are)
He is gay and says that he doesnt like girls. Same with me. I also used to be with girls but i was just hiding who i really was.
Anyway so we used to have sex lots for the first few month of us being together but now its stopped. He gets angry if i ever mention it and says im never happy. I hardly ever get anything (bj's) but he will take as many of them as i give. Tho sometimes he gets funny and push me away. As for anal i never get it. Refuses to give it to me but he would get it from me anytime. Although lately thats stopped as well.
He watches porn when im not home and also releives himself as we all do...
To me it seems odd that we dont ever do anything other than bj's and even thats now rare. I thought id test the waters as i dont even think he's attracted to me. I think its more of a convienence thing as i do so much for him,and suggested a third to fool around with. And he was quick to agree and say yeah as long as im happy. Im so confused and worried that he already has another on the side.
So sorry bout the long post.....This is my first relationship with a guy.
Any thoughts on what i should do or say? I do love him and he always tells me the same
So im a 28 yr old guy in a relationship with another guy who ive had a long history with. We have been together for almost a year but have been seeing each other for about 3 years. (he had a gf for most of it. now they arent together and we are)
He is gay and says that he doesnt like girls. Same with me. I also used to be with girls but i was just hiding who i really was.
Anyway so we used to have sex lots for the first few month of us being together but now its stopped. He gets angry if i ever mention it and says im never happy. I hardly ever get anything (bj's) but he will take as many of them as i give. Tho sometimes he gets funny and push me away. As for anal i never get it. Refuses to give it to me but he would get it from me anytime. Although lately thats stopped as well.
He watches porn when im not home and also releives himself as we all do...
To me it seems odd that we dont ever do anything other than bj's and even thats now rare. I thought id test the waters as i dont even think he's attracted to me. I think its more of a convienence thing as i do so much for him,and suggested a third to fool around with. And he was quick to agree and say yeah as long as im happy. Im so confused and worried that he already has another on the side.
So sorry bout the long post.....This is my first relationship with a guy.
Any thoughts on what i should do or say? I do love him and he always tells me the same