I may be a bit more kinky that my innocent face would lead folk to believe.
While I'm not all whip me beat me make me worship you 24/7 slave type thing - I do have a fascination with the dom/sub roles in bed (and out). I liked to be tied down a little, tied up a little... There is a lot I haven't tried in this venue, but with/for the right man I might be amazed at how far I would be willing to go.
I put in profiles: Vanilla to moderate BDSM.
I'm not into severe stuff like feces, blood, whipped senseless/to bleeding welts - but I do have a higher than average pain threshold
(Un)Fortunately the guys I have been with were not very experienced or not deep into BDSM subculture - while have proudly worn a collar (in private), and leather chaps and leather other stuff... It hasn't been a mainstay of my life.
I had a 'crash course' this past year talking with a relatively kinky person, I learned of needles and violet wand, sounding and a few other things I would like to try.
I have done body worship my third partner was a body builder and
had to have his muscles worshiped, and loved to compare his body parts to mine, in fact my refusal one night to do this is what ended up getting my heart broken, and my arm too...
I'm one of those people that sorta beg to be dominated, but at the same time any 'nice' dominating individual is loath to actually push too hard because I appear (and act - perhaps I am) a bit 'too nice' to be treated 'that way'....
I have a lot of fuzzy limits - while I haven't tried it I might be willing. Its all about being with the right fella and of course there has to be loads of trust.... Trust is hard to come by and apparently everyone I tend to trust ends up betraying that in some sort of horrible fashion, so now I'm just not that trusting - period.