So i have a confession to make....

[Ghost]

I have had sex with two guys and i have not ever sucked cock.....any tips to get over the fear of it? How do i even go about doing it, yeah i know the obvious stuff "oh umm just put it in your mouth" yeah i get that but i mean how do i make him squirm and crawl with excitement and want more? I basically want him to beg me to stop.....any tips? Things to avoid so i dont like it?

[princealbertofb]

Er, to make a man squirm, he'd have to have a very sensitive penis, probably... so it won't happen every time, but nonetheless, he might really be enjoying the experience. I find that there's nothing better than trying something and then asking him if he likes it, or asking for some indications from him to show whether you're doing it right, for him, whether it's appealing to him. You know, most guys don't like TEETH, at least that's how the story goes.
If you are afraid of giving a man fellatio, then maybe you should start with just playing around with the tip of your tongue, in his groin, on the shaft, on the balls... that's generally quite tantalising. If you're afraid because you fear they might not be 'clean' down there, then you get them in the shower, have a good wash and then you're probably safe to enjoy the skin licking...

[princealbertofb]

What exactly are you afraid of?

[Counselor]

I have had sex with two guys and i have not ever sucked cock.....any tips to get over the fear of it?

Sounds like you had a couple of tips already!





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[Bowyn Aerrow]

You have a dick (I assume) - thus know your way around one well enough to know what is more sensitive spots than others.

The trick to good oral is to put on a 'show'. Understand that most of sex takes place in the brain - yeah sure there is activity going on between the legs, but what makes or breaks a session is the sights, sounds, and the other 'activities' that are taking place.

Your enjoyment of the act will affect his enjoyment. If you suck and move your head up and down without moans, groans, and acting like you are eating shit - he will pick up on that and lose his excitement.

However if you do moan, groan, and get a wee bit frantic (act like you can't get enough) it will enhance his pleasure. - A lot if you are at least a good actor if not actually really, really into savoring the dish before you.

The head is pretty sensitive, a bit of stopping with the sucking and swirling the tongue around to find his sweet spot every so often helps.

Some guys think being deep throated is the hottest thing ever - some guys actually prefer if you gag and choke a bit but keep going back to more sending the signal that you are really, really into it.

Ball massage with one hand (or both, depending on how large his are) is always a good idea. The more excited he gets the rougher you can play.

Never, ever ever use your hand as a 'stop' to prevent you taking more. Meaning don't grab the base of his cock and hold on with a death grip - it sends a message that you ain't all that into him. While pausing and using stroking motions can enhance the experience for him, the 'hands off' method while working you mouth on him at least tells him you might deep throat him.

Guys like a little direction as well. I have found that while you are working on them, oh several minutes into it, and you are moaning and groaning a little - grab one other hands and put it on your head - signalling you want him to help 'guide' you around. It brings out the dom in most guys and lets them know you really want to please them and want to 'learn' to do it exactly like they like it.

The more you get to know your partner the more you will know how to trigger him in all the right ways. While most guys like the same things, some actually do like having you scrap your teeth a wee bit now and again, some like if you pause now and again to kiss up and down the shaft and head - others like you to work back and forth between balls and dick....

As for the fear - yeah - once you do it that fear will diminish a lot. Most likely if you hook up with a guy you have more than just sexual interest in (love interest) the whole fear of doing a lot of things will vanish. Sex requires a goodly deal of trust, and one can't really fully trust a casual sex hook-up.

If you encourage a little, a guy will tell you a lot about what he wants from you. Of course first you have to prime him a little, so after a few experimental minutes you can ask him 'do you like this?' and do something pull off and say 'Or do you like this?' and do something different.

He will tell you and let you know.

[princealbertofb]

I second Bowyn's advice... It all makes quite a lot of sense when it's actually happening. Just try to be adventurous and to enjoy it. Now some would say don't do this without a condom.... that's also something to decide on, whether you'll do it without or with...

[MisterTinkles]

I have had sex with two guys and i have not ever sucked cock.....any tips to get over the fear of it? How do i even go about doing it, yeah i know the obvious stuff "oh umm just put it in your mouth" yeah i get that but i mean how do i make him squirm and crawl with excitement and want more? I basically want him to beg me to stop.....any tips? Things to avoid so i dont like it?

Difficult to explain, I'd have to show you.

I like it when they start begging me to stop and let them "go", but I dont, that just makes me tease them more. By the time Im ready to do "my thing", they are so worked up, I could make them wash my truck, vacuum the floor, and balance the national budget!!!

[MisterTinkles]

Understand that most of sex takes place in the brain - yeah sure there is activity going on between the legs, but what makes or breaks a session is the sights, sounds, and the other 'activities' that are taking place.

"Brain sex"?

Ok. You GO Dr. Ruth!!!!