Botton or Top and dating?

[Bowyn Aerrow]

Topping is more of an attitude than an activity.

For instance you can lay on your back and order your partner to ride you like a horse.:biggrin:

Its the attitude... more or less.

I assume you are thus in a wheel chair, I would assume that the conversation will rise as to your ability... perhaps then you can couch your position preference as you explain your in bed abilities.

[LateBloomer]

My body is just very weak I cant hold my own wright or anyone else s for that matter.

Agree with Bowyen (again)! On your back, on your side, etc...

I've also recommended in other threads a technique I call "bun fucking".



Just lube up the buns/crack and rub away. Frottage for that matter...No penetration necessary.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Non-penetrative_sex

Just one concern, talk it over with a physician first. Sex can be pretty strenuous and you don't wanna hurt anything.