Jack from PA - Hello

[hardjat68]

Hello all, I'm Jack from PA. I'm new to the site. I am married and in the closet but 6 months ago I met a man that I fell in love with and I am now in a wonderful monogamous relationship with. The past 6 months have been pure bliss! My lover is also married but out to his family. I am 45 and this is my first experience with another man. I realize now that I am gay and have joined this site to explore this new part of my life.

[megumidesu]

i'm so confused . surely if you're married (and closeted) and also in a relationship with a man , it's not a monogamous relationship ...

welcome anyway . you should be honest with your wife.

[AlfredM]

^^^^ oh my god,I was about to post the same thing. I'm also so confused with your post Jack.

So,basically you and your lover are both married to women?

And if your lover is out of closet,does that mean his wife is okay with an open relationship?

Finally,you're basically saying you're having an affair with another married man behind your wife? (since you're in the closet)

Sorry for the bombardment of the questions,welcome to GS anyway Jack~