How do you get there?

[KawaiiKitty]

And by there I mean how do you reach orgasm? (whether by masturbation or sex with someone)

My mind usually wanders? during sex. But not in a bad way. Its like a freeing of my mind to imagine sex with just about anyone including my bf. Its not something Id wanna do probably in real life but its just a fantasy.

I usually imagine Harry Shum and Chord Overstreet from Glee and me and my bf having a fourway.

Or I imagine Taylor Lautner and the wolf pack and myself and my bf having an all out orgy.

That usually does the trick. What about you?

[Miles]

Self-Love: Visual aids help a good deal but are not necessary. I usually get there by imagining situations and feelings rather than by viewing images alone.

Sex: N/A. I'll get back to you on that one.

[MisterTinkles]

Thats for ME to know.....

and for Hugh Jackman to find out!!!

[Undreamt]

Nothing is worse than boring sex. If your having thoughts like that maybe you need to tlak to your boyfriend about trying new things.

[KawaiiKitty]

Nothing is worse than boring sex. If your having thoughts like that maybe you need to tlak to your boyfriend about trying new things.

our sex isnt boring, I think most people imagine other scenarios during sex with their partner I get off on the combination of the feeling of being with him and the fantasies I have in my mind.