me and my gf are lesbian but recently someone outted her from the closet?

[justme]

ive known this girl for a couple of years,even before i met my gf. i thought shes my friend so i told her whos my gf. this girl is in the closet as well. i had a fight with her sister cause she tried to hit on me. i told that girl that her sister did that and asked her if she told her im gay,she denied and we stopped talking. now my gf finds out from someone who knows these girls that they said shes gay. i dont know what to do,ive been crying for days. i cant talk to these girls it might make things worse and im scared my gfs brother will hear about it,he will kill her. what do i do? please help,its killing me that this happened to my gf

[Dreamer]

First off,
BREATH,
and recollect your thoughts.

What's done is done,
and you can't change that.

What you can change is how you respond to it!

You freaking out is not going to improve the situation.

Be there for your girlfriend,
during this ordeal,
because I suspect she's the one who has some real freaking out to do,
given her brother's possible reaction.

Sooth her, and listen to her concerns.
DO NOT add fuel to her fire by freaking out with her.

Obviously,
you can't talk things out with the two bitches
responsible for outing your girlfriend,
because they're rather irrational.

To get back at her,
what you can do is out the bitch whose still in the closet,
and partially responsible for this whole mess!
Just kidding! Don't do that!
That will probably just make things worse...


Just continue being the amazing girlfriend you are,
and be there for your woman,
until this whole thing blows over!

And it's ok to cry to relieve some stress,
just not to a point where it brings you down.

Also, welcome to GS!
We're always here for you!

I hope you stick around,
to let us know how things turn out!

[justme]

thankyou so much for your reply,it means alot and i appreciate it. ill try to be there for her
and calm her down. ill try to stay positive. and again,thank you

[Grey]

Being outted sux. I know, happened to me. It really helped that I had my bf to keep me as calm as possible so definitely be there for her. In the end she only needs the people who can accept her in her life so anyone who is mad is not important. Like has already been said stay positive, one day you'll look back and wonder why you got so upset.