To all the tops out there, does it matter how big a bottom's dick is? If you are going to fuck him/he sucks you off, do you care if he has a small dick?
I'm talking 2.5 inches erect, here. Not just a little shorter than average.
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As a top, size doesn't matter to me. I'm willing to recip oral and whatever size it is, it is. I care more about the bond we make and not the size of the equipment used.
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While I have little experience compared to most, I feel I am more a top when it comes to sex and my view tends to be that so long as I can give you pleasure through it and we are emotionally compatible enough for me to engage you, sexually, I will think it is attractive, regardless of how big or small it is. In the case of a guy who seems sensitive about his size, the only difference might be that I would be much more nurturing and reassuring in coitus to keep him in the moment with me complimenting how soft the skin of it is when touching it, and so on, between sweet nothings and small kisses. But I am a romantic type so I can't speak for all - likely it is like blond hair: some dig it, some won't,
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my experience = no problem.
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With half of the world's population unfortunately born without one... be happy you got one....
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(Yes my love above me, that was a tuna-fish joke)
Honestly, few guys are really size queens (into large endowments). While the idea of it in erotica is pretty hot, the reality is that few people are able to accept such a generous endowment. Thus much of it is wasted in bed.
Porn skews reality, most of the guys picked to be 'actors' (and I use that word very loosely) are picked because of their extraordinarily sized member. Porn 'writers' (seriously there are people who write the 'scripts') focus on impossible situations wherever possible - this is why condoms magically appear and no porn star has to take a break and do the tedious task of putting on the condom.
Assuming you are in a relationship the sex is going to be good to great regardless of the size of the endowments because in a relationship there is commitment, love and lots of other things that make sex special.
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Hmm. I hear that an inch is enough to penetrate a vagina from some source before. It's usually the thickness than the length for me I think. Either way, if the guy that you are with loves you, I don't think it matters. I mean, look at Hedwig and the Angry Inch, she only had an inch and still did well! XD
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