11-06-2013, 10:00 AM
Why are there questions we are not supposed to ask? Are there any rules concerning communicating with a person we care about? What makes us believe that some matters, words and thoughts should remain unspoken?
Taking into account my history, I have negative experience with relationships. I've never been in one, never even found a guy who I would like to be in one and so did he. But right now I think MJ might be the one I was looking for and probably he thinks the same. The problem is that he mentioned that he's not looking for a partner. But recently I broke one of the question rules and simply asked why.
Why you don't wanna to create a relationship with someone? His answer really surprised me. He said he's afraid he would scare off potential parter with his emotional baggage and simply everyone he wanted to be with, didn't want the same. Is it something you can say to a person you care about and probably wanna be with? Or is this just a thing you share with a friend who you occasionally sleep with?
I thought he avoided this thought simply because his flatmate, he sleeps with in the same bed by the way, is his boyfriend.But he assured me they are not a couple. Is my friend who says it's a bullshit right?
How much a person you're dating can dare to ask? Why is it commonly believed that you simply cannot ask certain questions? Why all this should be a pure guesswork while we could just ask?
Do you feel something to me? Do you assume we can someday be together. Do you see any chance you will ever fall in love with me?
For now these questions remain unanswered...
Taking into account my history, I have negative experience with relationships. I've never been in one, never even found a guy who I would like to be in one and so did he. But right now I think MJ might be the one I was looking for and probably he thinks the same. The problem is that he mentioned that he's not looking for a partner. But recently I broke one of the question rules and simply asked why.
Why you don't wanna to create a relationship with someone? His answer really surprised me. He said he's afraid he would scare off potential parter with his emotional baggage and simply everyone he wanted to be with, didn't want the same. Is it something you can say to a person you care about and probably wanna be with? Or is this just a thing you share with a friend who you occasionally sleep with?
I thought he avoided this thought simply because his flatmate, he sleeps with in the same bed by the way, is his boyfriend.But he assured me they are not a couple. Is my friend who says it's a bullshit right?
How much a person you're dating can dare to ask? Why is it commonly believed that you simply cannot ask certain questions? Why all this should be a pure guesswork while we could just ask?
Do you feel something to me? Do you assume we can someday be together. Do you see any chance you will ever fall in love with me?
For now these questions remain unanswered...