Pix Wrote:QFT.
I've noticed that gay men and straight women who specifically want a black guy often imagine him as aggressive, sometimes even cruel (think like the typical character played by Wesley Snipes). IOW, it's "yellow fever in reverse," instead of a bottom they want a top and automatically assume a black man is a top.
Though I once saw a YT vid of black men saying why they only dated white women...they thought we were submissive while black women got all in their business (sounded to me like wouldn't put up with their crap like being with other women).
It's true that there are historical tendencies that trickle down today in which white women are encouraged to be submissive (or at least not overtly dominant, heck magazines like Cosmo still encourage women to play mind games and get by on manipulation rather than being upfront) and for black women to be more assertive (it comes from the slave days in the US when the dominant black men tended to be broken or killed so it came down to the women to take care of things as slave owners didn't feel so threatened by them and created a tendency), but that's less true with each generation.
My BFF is black but is softer and more diplomatic than me. For example, we were leaving recycling when her then needy man-baby texted her asking why she was leaving there (for NO reason other than to assert control and/or remind her he was watching her as he had an app that let him track her phone which he used to turn it into a remote electronic leash) and we were in busy traffic. I told her it could wait, especially for such a mind boggling stupid question, and she texted as he had tantrums if she didn't even when he knew she was driving. I demanded the phone (I would've taken it had I not been scared that would've caused an accident on the freeway) but she wouldn't give it to me knowing Id' lecture him that he loved her he wouldn't be making her risk her life just so he could get a power trip or have his raging insecurities momentarily calmed with an absurd question. She even agreed with me but hoped he'd change and didn't want me to chase him off before he had the chance to (didn't work and she broke up with him a couple months later).
The point being that those black men on YT would much prefer my black BFF to me as she had the personality they preferred and any of them would find ME (the blonde white girl) getting in his business if I thought he wasn't treating her right. Much how I chased off a white guy who was severely sexually harassing her (thinking black women were skilled sluts) despite her obvious discomfort (though how that turned out was kinda funny and she had her revenge against him without ever confronting him directly). Granted, we're unusual that way, but not unique.
First off gurl
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Get out of my Head Pixie, see this is why us Gurls are so much better than them boys lol.
But I so agree, like Guys here think if they bring an Asian woman back here, she'll wash his clothes, rub his feet, cook his food, give him pussy on cue, and just generally bend over backwards to please them and unfortunately, some of these women do that for them, just for a "better" life and so hence the stereotype.
And now here, Pilipino's are generally disliked, mostly by the Women, as they are viewed as people who just " give man anyding weh him want" and take them away from the Bermy Women...
Me personally, I don't care if he fucks a chinee-man, an indee-man, Spanish-man, what ever gurl, point is to me, he's fucking a man and that's that.
All these racially charged stereotypes just kill me...literally.
I'm tired of trying to date online, because the moment my place of Origin or Race comes into factor, guys automatically assume I'm this Exotic Golden hue gay, who is sensual and all that blah and while some of that is true
and I joke about it a lot, I find it degrading not only for them, but for me as well, cause it's like that's all they're looking at.
And Yes gurl, I really am annoyed with the whole Black v White thing -.-. being a mix, where then does that leave me? I can't "act" like either then?
If a White gurl wants to cock a hip, Z the finger and swivel the neck, then good for her, she just better not do it to me, cause I'll have her crop
, but really, who cares if a White gurl does it?
And anyway, I swear really, people give these Black Men too much fucking credit sometimes, some of these black men are the biggest frauds and chat-ups I've ever seen in my life! Talkin bout "ya bitch, sit on this here dick" , mean while it's like a Pencil...sharpened to the eraser.
I'm like okey, while you sit there and think about my time you've wasted, I'll go see that white guy over there
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Like seriously, People are people, get over the whole colour thing -.-.
You may happen to like an Asian, but calling it a "Fetish" or whatever degrades the Race and objectifies them.
It's 2013. We're not at a Slave Auction, we're not at a White's Only, Black's Only point in our lives anymore. Let's drop all these Stereotype, so we can live our blessed gay ass lives x.x
Hollah Back at a Sista, enuh!
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