Well this is easy. Myself...
I'd date myself...
Pretty hard to find another me tho...
BUT.
If it wasn't me that I was to date. He'd have brown hair (or blonde but he'll probably have brown hair). He'll be skinny (Not that I'm shallow but he has to be attractive to moi.)
He'll be neat, but not a clean freak (As I am not very neat.)
We'll be able to work towards common goals
HOME
Home life will be important. And work life too.
Our house will have nice stuff.
He'll be will have a very realistic view of the world but will be able to see outside of the box too.
This isn't actually a discretion of my type of guy it's what will happen when I get my type of guy. I can see the future and if this isn't the future then I don't very much want anyone. I don't mind being single cos I can get all I want on my own... But it'd be nice to have someone to share all this time with.
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Just based on the shallow side of things, blond, with green eyes and swimmers build, lol. But that aside just someone honest and nice.
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I dunno. I really don't know what I find attractive in men anymore. I'm turning into a Morrissey-style kinda-gay-but-asexual type. But things I value and would like a potential mate to have:
A sense of humor - oh my GOD I have dated too many guys who are dry as a bone. I like guys who can joke around, make me smile, that sort of thing. Very underrated quality I hold in high esteem.
Charm - it doesn't hurt to have charisma and be generally likable. I like it not only if he can make me smile, but others as well, even complete strangers he runs into.
Generally healthy - I'm not looking for someone in Olympic gymnast shape, but I take care of my health and would appreciate a partner who did too. Eat well, goes to the gym, etc.
Self-confidence - too many guys reek of insecurity. It's a turn-off. I mean, it's okay if you're a little nervous on a first date, but generally confidence is another big turn-on for me - I like a guy who takes charge at times and shrug off minor set backs. A guy who sees an open door when the line we're standing in is long and has the confidence to grab me by the hand and whisk both of us through said door will have my heart.
Not afraid to think different - I'm not a fan of "conventional" gay men who talk about the latest and greatest thing the lame-stream media tells us to like. I like guys who have their eyes and ears to the underground.
"Cute" face - I'm a sucker for cute. I'm not generally a fan of the stark "daddy" look (apologies to those who rock that). Youthful and smooth face, bright eyes, kissable lips. So beautiful, so sexy!
Intelligence - I don't need someone with a doctoral degree (even though I have one myself), but someone who is curious about the world and is knowledgable about many facets of it.
I don't know if that's too picky, but yeah, that's what I'd like. Also, someone in my age range (25-40) roughly.
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I like unshaven bald guys who burp while drinking stale warm beer. They don't have to speak,,,, just grunt once in a while to let me know they need more beer and pickled pigs feet. <fleeeeeeeeeeeeee>
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anyone who likes me for me - don't care If there super skinney and everyones dream guy ,, or a big guy who talks nice to me , just a guy whos nice will do
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For the moment, just someone who makes me feel special and less alone heh
Sometimes you need a bit of chaos in your life to be able to shrug off pitiful disdain about something meaningless.
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The perfect guy would be in the fairy tale, in the story, I think.
I just want a man I love, no matter whether he is perfect or not.
Everybody has some flaws.
as long as we love each other, he would be the right one.
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physical traits:
tall( taller than me at least)
muscular( but not insanely so)
short hair
a nice ass
personality wise:
someone who is confident, intelligent, tough, domineering but affectionate and caring and let's me be me most of the time and is open-minded...also a nice ass and being well endowed doesn't hurt:biggrin:
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I like adorable guys who love punk rock and aren't afraid to be themselves. I get tired of guys that try to change who they are to be with me, I just want you to be you! I've actually found someone like this but that's a different story haha.
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